Going through a break up is never easy...
It is especially hard when you want your ex back but you are not sure how to go about it because nothing seems to be working.
The good news is that there are ways to get your ex back and they are simple to understand, you just have to take action and put them to good use.
First let's go over the initial break up in case you have just recently been through a break up...
The important thing to do in this position is not to beg or plead or argue with your ex to get back together...
It may seem hard but the best thing you can do for right now is to agree with the break up...
Tell your ex it is probably for the best and just go on your way, this shows a lot of maturity and eases a lot of tension.
The next thing you want to do is stay away from contacting your ex too soon after the break up...
It is not a good idea to call or text your ex to talk about your relationship, this will usually just makes things worse.
While you are in this phase of not talking and just taking a break from one another it is important that you get to the underlying reasons why the break up happened in the first place.
It is usually from something that you never really notice until you really look at the relationship from the outside, it's hard to see problems while you are in the relationship, so its good to take an outside or 3rd person's point of view...