Are you wondering how to make up with an ex after a bitter quarrel? Well, quarreling or arguing is very common in any type of relationship and sometimes, you just can't avoid that.
However, there is really no need to fall out of your relationship after a quarrel or argument.
If you have just quarreled with your lover and is wondering how to make up with him or her, let us look at what you can do.
The first thing you should do is to apologize.
Seems obvious, isn't it? Perhaps you are already expecting me to say that, huh? Well, as obvious as it may be, apologies is not as simple as it seems.
The fact is that there is a right way to apologize and the wrong way to apologize.
Making apology is not as simple as saying sorry.
There is also an art to apology.
Obviously, without saying, the apology must definitely be sincere.
An insincere apology is only going to make the situation worse.
The problems with most apologies are that it is always followed by self justification.
Let us look at a quick example.
"I am very sorry but...
" See the problem now? People always apologize and say "but", as if to justify that they have a reason to be wrong.
You don't want to defend yourself when making an apology.
That will make you look insincere.
It will be much better to apologize without defending yourself.
Simply say, "I am sorry for what I have done and I hope you will forgive me.
" Forget about the "but".
No justification.
Remember that!