Did you and your man used to enjoy your relationship? If you've noticed that,for no reason at all, he doesn't show you his emotions anymore, or he wouldn't kiss and hug you, then trust what your instinct tells you.
There really is something wrong.
Here are seven tips to handle your slowly withdrawing man: Reflect on the current status of your relationship Try to find the circumstances that led to the sudden boredom in your relationship.
Maybe he's just dealing with life's concerns and he's currently emotionally distressed.
It may pertain to work, school or other things.
This sudden coldness may also be a reaction to what you've said and done.
Feel him and assess where the relationship is leading to.
Stop being overbearing Never lose your cool..
Don't just mope, be upset, or be dissatisfied with the trials in your relationship.
Make him see that although you're both experiencing problems at the moment, that you two can handle them, and that you have good control of your emotions.
Ease his fears Don't overreact in front of him with all your drama.
No one wants a woman with an emotional baggage.
Besides, your being emotional might add to the stress that he might already be experiencing with other factor in his life.
Let him know that you are a confident and grown woman, one who can be his source of strength.
Try putting him first Have you been selfish and concerned with your wants and needs? Then it's time that you pamper your man and shower him with the love and understanding he deserves.
Show him how special he is in your life.
This will strengthen the relationship and prevent him from withdrawing emotionally.
Don't ever make any assumptions Don't make negative presumptions about him and the relationship.
Remember to always look on the positive side of things.
Never nag or fight with him.
Unless he told you himself that he wants to get into a commitment, never assume that he wants one.
Be patient with him even when you're itching to throw a plate at him Don't throw all your questions at him at once.
Take your time.
Find out if this is the right moment for you to talk with him.
If he retreats into a corner, let him.
Talk - don't yell - at him There's no better way to handle this than by having a conversation where neither of you will raise voices.
If you're going to talk with him, do it in a nice way.
Through this, maybe you can fix your problems and head on to greater heights in your relationship.