Are you going through a break up? If So don't worry.
Just about everyone has been through a break up at some point in their lives, it's only natural that people enter and leave throughout your life.
Take my advice on this that no matter how much crying or moaning about your situation, it's not going to improve unless you start taking steps to change your situation.
On the flip side to that, if you are willing to listen to what I have to say then you will have a very good chance to get your ex back.
To start this off, you need to realise that half the battle if you want to get your ex back is the appearance which you give off.
To begin with it's worth noting that the image which you project to your ex is very important.
You need to search deep inside yourself and make sure that you feel confident within your own skin.
If you desire to get your ex back you don't want to make a fool out of yourself by coming across as desperate.
You need to make them want you otherwise this wont work.
This is a more common mistake than most realise.
Does this sound like your relationship? if so don't panic about it.
Remember almost all relationships can be mended if you know the appropriate steps to take.
You are probably in 1 of two possible situations as you read this right now.
You either are already broke up, or you think you are going to be soon.
Regardless of which one of those people you are, your reaction to the break up is going to be exactly the same.
Don't try to stop them if they say they want to break up, just let it happen and agree.
This is exactly the opposite from what your feelings will tell you to do however it is essential.
This is the start of what will hopefully be a successful no contact phase.
In order to do this correctly you can't be in touch with your ex at all.
For this to be most successful, this needs to last at least one month.
Time apart is very important at this stage and this is what this creates.
It gives you time to think about your situation and take a step back for a while.
It also gives your ex time to reconsider their actions and think if this is really what they want.
The final stage is to give your ex a call.
Before making this next step, it should have been at least thirty days since you last spoke to your ex.
Speak to them and request that you can meet at some point.
Don't make it sound like a big deal, that will only scare them off.
During the meeting make it clear to your ex that while not in contact with them, it has given you a lot of time to think.
Explain to your ex that although they have been out of your sight they have not been out of your thoughts.
Explain to them that you would like a second go to make your relationship work.
If there is an awkward silence at this point don't just sit there, tell them that you don't want an answer right away,give them time to think it over and get back to you.
Now thank them for actually coming to meet you and say goodbye.