If you know a little about women, you know that they want what they cannot get and they tend to get bored with what lies at their feet.
Just like cats.
If you are anything like me, you probably spend the time since you got dumped with one or more of the following to get your girlfriend back:

• Acting down and depressed and hoped that she would feel sorry for you and take you back.
  
• Buying her flowers and gifts to express your love for her.
  
• Calling her several times a day and let her know that you miss her.
  
• Doing everything you can to be with her.
  
• Begging her to take you back.
  
• Acting as a nice guy and helped her with stuff, even though she dumped you.
  
• It is okay, we all do that.
  Doing some or all of the above seems logical, does it not? Well, it does not work, if you want to get your girlfriend back.
  

Whatever you do, stop doing that.
No more begging, no more Mr.
nice guy and no more jumping trough hops.
If you really want her back, you have to show her that you are perfectly fine without her and that you are actually better than when you where together.
It is illogical and seems completely silly, I know! Let us go back to the cat talk.
If you hold a piece of string in front of a cat, it goes after it.
If it cannot have it, the cat goes crazy.
However, if you drop that string on the floor, in front of the cat, then what happens? The cat could not care less about that silly string.
It is the same with women.
Do not get me wrong here.
I love and respect woman, even though they have many similarities with cats :) So, to sum everything up; To get your girlfriend back, act as if you do not need her, even though she is all you think about.
However, you should not just be sitting at home waiting for her to call you so you can tell her that you do not have time right now.
No, go live your life, meet new people, socialize, go kite surfing or do whatever makes you feel good.
It will make your life more fun and you will become an interesting person again.