If your ex is behaving like a spoilt kid and refusing to talk to you after the breakup then simply offering him/her candies will not lure him/her back into the fold.
Try these 4 ways to get your ex back even if they don't want to talk to you and get your dumb-but-lovable ex back into the verbal world.
The 1st step would be to get your zipped-up ex to start talking to you.
Vanish for a few days from your ex's line of vision.
This will cool the heated atmosphere caused by the breakup.
After returning back, simply write a single letter stating your views on the breakup and apologize, if necessary.
This will safely release the resentment from within your ex.
The next way would be to wait for a week or so before sending a love poem that your ex might have loved during those romantic heydays.
You can write them or send an email.
Alternatively, you can also dedicate a love song over the radio to your ex, provided you can make sure that your ex is tuned in to that station.
Since your ex's stance would have become less rigid by now, you could now use the helpful services of common friends or even your ex's family to break the ice.
Ask common friends to talk to your ex and convince him/her to attend a single meeting that could be used to thrash out the differences that led to the breakup.
Your softened ex will surely agree to at least hear you out.
The last way would be to go fully prepared to the make-or-break meeting.
Maintain a calm demeanor and talk in a mature manner with your ex.
By now, your ex would have mellowed down sufficiently enough to agree to most of your views and a reunion could simply be sealed with a loving kiss.
Hence, these 4 ways will defrost your cold ex and get him/her talking again to you.
Use these 4 ways and welcome your chatty ex back into your silent life.