He or she used to text you every moment of every day! You would make phone calls during your lunch hour or on your way to or from school or work.
It felt like a natural part of your day.
Unbeknown to you, it also became a habit.
Now, it is over, and your day feels long and empty without those cute little text messages or phone calls.
Do not ruin your chances at a reunion! Instead, read on for proper getting your ex back etiquette! Twitchy Texting Fingers Avoid the urge to text your ex! This may be difficult, and it may seem 'right' because it is what you have been used to until now.
Texting them may come across as aggressive.
Unless you have a very valid reason for contact, do not do it! Give them time away to consider a life without you.
It may be all they need to come running back! Talking No-No's If your ex still messages you on occasion, this is a great sign! However you are not out of the break up woods yet.
You can easily turn your ex off and away from you.
Avoid specific "talking no-no's" to better your chances.
When they do text or call you, do not pick up where old fights left off or turn every conversation into a whiny guilt trip.
Instead, do your best to speak normally as though they were a good friend just saying "what's up?".
Getting Your Ex Back: Face to Face versus Texting You will probably have some important things you wish to tell your ex.
It is important your ex knows exactly how you feel and how much they really mean to you.
It is possible they felt neglected or had no idea you loved them so deeply.
However, you may be tempted to start such a conversation over texts.
Avoid doing this! Your words will have far more impact in person or at least during a phone conversation, where your ex can hear you speak with emphasis.
Texts also tend to be short, and you do not want to pick and choose which thoughts you share.