While seemingly an impossible option, winning back an ex boyfriend isn't as impossible as it may seem.
Your personal traits needed for this task are patience, understanding and most of all, courage.
If your ex boyfriend is seeing another girl already, it can be more difficult, but not impossible.
Knowing in you heart of hearts that he is the one for you, will be the drive you need to accomplish this feat.
It will take time and effort on your part, along with the traits mentioned above, but with a few tips you CAN start to get things back on track.
The one thing you can be sure about is that the breakup happened for a reason.
The best use of your time, at first, is to take a good, long look at your relationship and figure out what exactly went wrong.
Then, you have to figure out what your part was in the breakup.
Yes, you had a part, otherwise there wouldn't have been a relationship to begin with.
If you made a mistake, you have to be big enough to admit it and be able to learn and grow from it.
Have you ever been around someone that is spiteful and resentful after a breakup? You do NOT want to be that person.
Complain, complain, complain.
Most all people are turned off by anyone wallowing in self-pity.
You want to BELIEVE that you will get your boyfriend back.
If you don't believe you can then you never will.
It is impossible to do anything if you don't try.
You will have to make an effort if you want a result.
Having a positive attitude and being enthusiastic while going through this process can have a huge impact on the end result.
You also do NOT want to be the type of person that calls or texts constantly.
That's not what it took to get him in the first place and it won't work now either.
It's more likely to do the opposite of what you really want.
Guys like challenges and being too available isn't that challenging.
Along the same lines, you also don't want to try to make him feel sorry for you either.
You had your integrity when you started the relationship, and you should have it now as well.
There are subtle ways I'm sure you can think of to let him know your intentions.
One other thing to NOT do is call him after or while you are drinking (if this applies).
You never know what might come out at the wrong time or in the wrong context that might do much more harm than good.
Alcohol intensifies the effects many emotions so "Don't Drink and Dial".
What you DO want to do is look and feel your best! Like it or not, men are visual beings.
They like girls that look and act attractive.
Most men tend to believe that a woman's outer beauty is just as, if not more, important as her inner beauty.
Looking good at all times will not only make you feel good, but may also entice him to once again claim you as his own.
How you go about getting your ex boyfriend back is of course totally up to you.
Just know that if you really want it to happen, it CAN.
It will take time, and lots of effort on your part, but if it's something you are willing to fight for, then JUMP Into The RING!