When a relationship turns habitual and you keep repeating the same thing as if it's a routine, you start taking things for granted.
That's when you expect your lover to always be there for you and you never appreciate their existence anymore until they turn away from you.
Is there a light at the end of this tunnel? Yes.
Winning your love back is a task easier than you've imagined.
If it's easy, why most people fail then? This is because most love-winning tactics fail to take into account how men and women think differently.
Women strive to make men understand how much they are needed and loved whereas men believe in actions, not words.
If you truly want to win your love back, you will need some time to eliminate the things you said in your relationship.
Take a look at what you did instead.
Most women have no problem recalling the moments when they try to make their men understand how deep is their love and how much they want their men to stay - through words.
Is this reflected in the actions? A man views your words as you trying to let him know how sad you feel, and he is the culprit of your sadness.
He then concludes that your life will be better without him.
Is that what you want to achieve through your words - to push him away? No! Now try to recall the arguments you had.
Do you try to reason with him when you are angry? Your man will never understand what you want when you are shouting.
All he knows is you are unhappy with him, and he caused your misery, and he should break up with you so you can be happy again.
If you give him silent treatment, he will be thinking along the same lines.
If you really want to win your love back, you need to understand that action works better than words.
Your lover wants to see you happy and he wants to know that he is the one who makes you happy.
So what should you do? Show to him that you are happy! That's the most effective method to let him know he is the right person for you.
Be yourself and be confident.
A man finds you extremely attractive when you are happy and confident with yourself.
Remember, that's the way you are when he first fell in love with you.
That's the way you were at the beginning of the relationship, so continue to be so if you want him to continue to love you.
You will need to spend time doing things that make you happy - perhaps hanging out with your friends, stroll in the parks, watch a movie you love and later have a cup of a coffee with your man at a cozy cafe.
Your actions will show him what a pleasant person you are and his feelings for you will come back like magic.