Did your boyfriend dump you, but each time you try to talk to him he only seems to get angry? Many women don't understand how someone so close to them can suddenly grow so cold.
If you feel as if your boyfriend is slipping away, along with any chance of getting back together, the following guidelines can really help out.
You're Fighting Against His Decision To Break Up Breaking up with you was a decision your boyfriend made, and it was probably a hard one.
Before he sat down with you and ended things, he first mapped everything out in his heart and mind.
After coming to the conclusion that you should rather be apart, your boyfriend tried to think of the best way to break things off - one that included the least amount of drama.
Crying, begging, pleading...
these things prolong the process of the breakup, and they can make your boyfriend feel very awkward around you in the future.
Right now, you want your ex to feel comfortable in talking to or communicating with you...
not the other way around.
By fighting against the break up or trying to get your boyfriend to change his mind? You're causing him to feel combative or defensive whenever he encounters you.
You're Trying To Guilt Your Ex Into Getting Back Together Again One thing most guys all agree upon: guilt sucks.
If you're throwing a pity party with the intentions of making your ex boyfriend feel badly, what you're really doing is driving him away.
Why won't my ex boyfriend take me back? Probably because he's so weirded out by your behavior that he simply doesn't know what to do or say around you.
Remaining calm and collected can go a long way toward undoing your breakup.
When your ex sees that you've handled the break in a mature and civil manner, he's a lot more likely to consider dating you again.
Maybe not immediately, but you've laid the groundwork to make reconciliation easier down the road.
You're Exhibiting Desperate Behavior After The Break Up Remember when you first met your boyfriend? He was attracted to your looks of course, but also to many of your personality traits.
If you were outgoing, funny, confident and independent - these are all behaviors that guys look for in a potential girlfriend.
Getting your boyfriend back requires taking a good look at yourself right now...
and being honest with what you see.
You can't win back your ex boyfriend if you're an emotional wreck.
Constantly calling, emailing, or text-messaging your ex is a sign of desperation and neediness.
The harder you push, the faster your boyfriend will run in the opposite direction.
And if it seems he's always getting angry at you? It's mostly because he doesn't know how to handle this new, less-attractive version of you.
Understand something: feelings just don't go away.
Your boyfriend still has strong emotional bonds to you, but right now he's trying to ignore them.
In order to move forward, he's shelving his feelings for you and trying to put them aside.
This doesn't mean he doesn't love you anymore - it only means he's looking for a change.
The good news? There are methods and techniques that will help turn him around.
Even if your ex hasn't paid you much mind since the break up, there are ways of getting him to turn his attention back to you.
By learning these methods, and by establishing a step by step plan, you can accelerate the process of getting your boyfriend back even when it seems he won't take you.