To All Exes - Do You Want Your Ex Back? First Class Advice to Exes - From an Ex
You think you've found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
You're happier than you've ever been, feel like there's no mountain you can't climb, no challenge you can't conquer.
Next thing you know a spanner is thrown in the works and suddenly the possibility of a break up gets lobbed at you like a hand grenade and ...
surprise! Your relationship explodes in your face.
It's a bad break up but you survive the shock and the hurt and when the smoke clears, you're sure of only one thing...
you want your ex back! Great, at least you know what you want, most people are struggling and still trying to figure out what to do after a break up, never mind knowing what they want.
Most break ups are recoverable, so it can be done but what exactly does a break up recovery involve? Really, it's just a case of having a cool head and pushing all the right buttons in the right order and who better than you, the person who knows your ex best, to push those buttons? First off, to get your ex back you really are going to need that clear head I mentioned earlier - so bottle up all of your insecurities, anxieties and the emotional stuff and go bury it somewhere! Next you're going to need a get your ex back plan.
The plan I'm suggesting is a simple one but deadly in its intent, and that's to make yourself attractive to your ex all over again, starting from scratch.
Will it work? Of course! You know their taste - that's you - and you've snared your ex once before remember, so why not again? Here's a couple of quickie tactics to get your break up recovery show on the road...
1.
You'll have heard this one before: if you've been doing the bowing, begging, scraping, pleading thing (or anything close to it) well guess what, it can work if that's the way you want to go.
But trust me, you really don't want to re-enter a relationship on that basis, you'll pay dearly later and the price will be your total humiliation, don't say you weren't warned.
In any event bowing and scraping is hardly attractive.
I mean ask yourself, when was the last time you were attracted to some needy person grovelling for your affections? 2.
Next up...
fix up! You most certainly had a yummy factor when you met your ex for the first time - it's part of the reason they took a shine to you in the first place.
We need for you to get it back and quick so...
you disappear, sort yourself out and when you re-appear...
You've given your image a fresh lick of paint and even your sour, depressing attitude now sparkles with an image make over.
Ok, so now we have a fresh attitude and you've got the yummy thing going on...
now what? Now you make your move of course but it's crucial you do everything just right otherwise another hand grenade is likely...
You're happier than you've ever been, feel like there's no mountain you can't climb, no challenge you can't conquer.
Next thing you know a spanner is thrown in the works and suddenly the possibility of a break up gets lobbed at you like a hand grenade and ...
surprise! Your relationship explodes in your face.
It's a bad break up but you survive the shock and the hurt and when the smoke clears, you're sure of only one thing...
you want your ex back! Great, at least you know what you want, most people are struggling and still trying to figure out what to do after a break up, never mind knowing what they want.
Most break ups are recoverable, so it can be done but what exactly does a break up recovery involve? Really, it's just a case of having a cool head and pushing all the right buttons in the right order and who better than you, the person who knows your ex best, to push those buttons? First off, to get your ex back you really are going to need that clear head I mentioned earlier - so bottle up all of your insecurities, anxieties and the emotional stuff and go bury it somewhere! Next you're going to need a get your ex back plan.
The plan I'm suggesting is a simple one but deadly in its intent, and that's to make yourself attractive to your ex all over again, starting from scratch.
Will it work? Of course! You know their taste - that's you - and you've snared your ex once before remember, so why not again? Here's a couple of quickie tactics to get your break up recovery show on the road...
1.
You'll have heard this one before: if you've been doing the bowing, begging, scraping, pleading thing (or anything close to it) well guess what, it can work if that's the way you want to go.
But trust me, you really don't want to re-enter a relationship on that basis, you'll pay dearly later and the price will be your total humiliation, don't say you weren't warned.
In any event bowing and scraping is hardly attractive.
I mean ask yourself, when was the last time you were attracted to some needy person grovelling for your affections? 2.
Next up...
fix up! You most certainly had a yummy factor when you met your ex for the first time - it's part of the reason they took a shine to you in the first place.
We need for you to get it back and quick so...
you disappear, sort yourself out and when you re-appear...
You've given your image a fresh lick of paint and even your sour, depressing attitude now sparkles with an image make over.
Ok, so now we have a fresh attitude and you've got the yummy thing going on...
now what? Now you make your move of course but it's crucial you do everything just right otherwise another hand grenade is likely...
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