How to Be Affectionate With Your Ex Boyfriend - One Tip to Rekindle the Romance in 3 Seconds Flat
When you're around him, you experience that awkward feeling where you want to be affectionate with him to show him you still care about him, but you're not quite sure how to go about it without coming on too strong or scaring him off.
Thoughts creep into your mind.
Do I hug him? Kiss him? Should I hold his hand? Things that were once second nature now become agonizing dilemmas after a breakup when you're not quite sure how to act around your ex boyfriend.
There's a fine line between being able to repair the relationship and ruining it for good.
So how can you be affectionate with your ex boyfriend in the right way that will allow you to assess his feelings and grow closer to him again without making him feel nervous or pressured? This article will provide you with one simple technique you can use to rekindle the romance in 3 seconds flat.
The Instant Reconnect Technique The technique I'm about to share with you is extremely powerful, and simple to do.
It's called the instant reconnect technique and it's perfect to use when you're wondering how to be affectionate with your ex boyfriend.
Here's how to pull it off.
The next time you're around your ex boyfriend, strike up a fun conversation about something interesting, funny, etc.
When you feel like things are going well, simply reach over and act like you are removing a piece of hair or a stray eyelash off his face.
If you don't feel comfortable touching his face or if you think he might pull away from it, you can also reach over and act as though you are pulling lint off his shoulder.
Then, simply continue to make eye contact and continue on with the conversation.
When he feels the touch of your hand on his skin, he will instantly feel reconnected to you.
That type of tender, innocent moment of affection can be extremely powerful and can immediately make your ex boyfriend feel intense, positive emotions for you.
Learning how to be affectionate with your ex boyfriend in this way will also give you a strong sense of where he stands in the relationship.
The key is to watch how he reacts to your touch.
If he has a favorable reaction, you can attempt to be more affectionate the next time you see him by attempting to hold his hand, give him a hug, etc.
If he pulls away when you apply the instant reconnect technique, then you may need to give him more time and space and try additional techniques.