There is nothing more gut wrenching than the love of your life saying those seven horrible words that we all dread.
"I don't want to see you anymore.
" I know that I've heard them more than I'd care to admit.
Growing up, they used to call me the breakup kid.
I had more girlfriends dump me than Carter has liver pills.
And each one hurt just as much as the one before it.
Well, if you're reading this, you're probably suffering through the same horrible situation.
Don't worry, it's not permanent.
This article will get you on your way to winning your ex back into your life.
One of the biggest reasons we have so much trouble getting our ex back is that we're all wrapped up in a ball.
We're so emotionally distraught that we can't think straight, and unfortunately, you must be able to think straight if this plan is going to work.
So the first thing you have to do is calm down and get yourself out of the house.
Stop moping around.
Go shopping.
Go to a movie.
Do something.
Just get out.
Get your mind off of your ex, at least for a little while.
Then you'll be able to think clearly.
Next step is to sit down, after you've calmed down, and think about why the breakup took place.
A lot of people have problems admitting their mistakes.
Trust me, nobody is perfect and we all make our share of them.
In my case, the reason most, if not all of these girls, broke up with me is because I was too needy.
I smothered these women to death.
They don't like that.
If you're a gal, I think you know that.
So I learned from that mistake.
You have to do the same.
You have to admit to yourself where you went wrong.
And then you have to admit it to your ex.
That's right.
You have to swallow your pride, go to your ex and say, "Honey, I screwed up.
" And tell your ex how you screwed up so they know you really understand.
Yes, you have to point out where you went wrong so they can see you know where you went wrong.
Don't lay any of the blame at their feet, though they've made mistakes as well I'm sure.
Take it all upon yourself.
This will totally take your ex by surprise.
After the confession, leave it at that.
Don't make demands.
In time, your ex will call you up and ask to see you, 9 out of 10 times.
Now, if this doesn't work, don't worry.
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I've reviewed it and you can read my review below.
I think you will find it very informative.
You really CAN win your ex back.
You just have to know how to go about it.
To YOUR Relationship Success, Martin J Waterson