The first few days and weeks after a break up can be a trying time.
Part of you still wants your ex back.
But another part of you really doesn't want to be the one who initiates the reconciliation.
Wouldn't it be great if you could get your ex to come crawling back to you while having a lot of fun in the process? Think about this: Have you ever gone through a break up, gotten totally over a person, and then as soon as you start dating someone you think you might really like, your ex calls you up out of the blue? It happened because you made your ex so jealous that they couldn't stand the thought of not being with you anymore.
So they called you to test the waters.
But surprisingly enough, your ex might not have been as jealous about the new person you were dating as you would think.
Instead, your ex was more upset that you were happy without them.
See, if you want to make your ex so jealous that they come crawling back to you, you don't necessarily have to date someone else.
Even though that does help, if you aren't up for dating again then it will only backfire and make you feel worse.
But if you are thinking about dating again, then go for it! Have as much fun as you possibly can! But if you really, honestly want to make your ex so jealous that they have to call you, then the best way to do that is to show your ex that you don't need them in your life.
You can do this by being super happy with yourself.
Have fun with your friends.
Go out and do everything you've been putting off because you were waiting for your ex to come back.
The more you can do to get your life in order, even with your ex not in it, the more of a magnet you will be for happiness and good energy.
Your ex will see that you're loving life and will be reminded of how things were between you when you first started dating.
And then pretty soon your ex will be calling you just to see what you're up to.
Then you can make your move!