We've all been there before.
You both say something you don't mean.
The door slams, and you're left wondering what just happened.
Well, we're going to talk about ways of getting him back.
The first part of getting him back is timing.
You don't want to move too fast because both of you are still upset from the fight.
You have to give him time to calm down or he won't listen to anything you say.
You also don't want to wait too long.
Giving him too much time can signal disinterest, especially if you "broke up" during the fight.
Men don't work the same way as women.
If you break up during a fight, you break up.
Just ask Ross and Rachel! So, you should base your response time to the level of commitment in your relationship.
If it's new and not very strong, then the sooner the better.
If you know he has to come home to you tonight, then give him more time to cool off.
The second thing about getting him back is honesty.
If you did something in the relationship that was wrong, or caused the fight, you have to be honest about what happened.
This even includes cheating.
People say women are psychic, but men have their own gut feelings as well.
They know when something happened, especially in a long term committed relationship.
Be honest about what happened.
Be honest about your feelings.
If you can't do this, then you can't expect him to move past it.
The next part of getting him back is good old fashioned buttering up.
I know women hate it.
We never want to stoop to that level.
But the truth is, your man needs to know that you love him and he means a lot to you.
Guys aren't into flowers and candy, so don't bother.
You gotta break out the big guns like offering to go to a sporting event or action movie.
The more you're willing to share in something he likes and you hate, the more he knows you mean it.
The final, most important aspect of getting him back is to make sure you actually want him back, or that he wants you.
People, especially women, don't screw up in a relationship that they really care about.
So if you cheated or did something equally bad, you need to ask yourself why.
If the relationship was worth saving, you probably wouldn't have done that.
If your reply to that statement was "I cheated because he cheated" well, you have your answer.
You also have to be sure that he's willing to take you back.
Don't waste some grand gesture on a guy who doesn't love you back.
You'll end up looking like a crazy stalker.
Hopefully these tips have helped in your quest of getting him back.
Good luck and happy make-up sex.