It is normal for both men and women to become disoriented after a break up.
You want your ex back but you don't know the best way to do it.
You ask your friends, read self-help books or even searched online for the best advice but the more you think about it, the worst the situation become and you end up losing all creative ideas.
Breaking up is hard enough but getting your ex back is even harder.
After you've exhausted all efforts, you gave up and moved on with your life.
But, just as you were over him, you see him walking towards you in a restaurant.
You started to panic and old feelings came rushing back.
What should you do? oKeep your cool and put on a brave face.
After all, he's the one making the first move.
Pretend you didn't see him at all.
Don't panic and when you finally spoke, don't mention anything about your break up.
Talk about what's new in your life that would interest him.
oTake interest in what's going on in his life.
Don't bring up the break up issue anymore.
Be friendly and casual with the conversation and don't be too nice especially if you're the dumper.
oIf he brings up the break up issue, try to deal with it because this validates he is still interested and this might be the chance to settle it.
oKeep your eyes open to the conversation that may lead to reconciliation.
This time you will have a better chance because you already know him.
Propose to be friends with him and tell him how the break up has made you a better person and you will see how he will find ways to get you back.