An argument between you and your girlfriend spun seriously out of control ending with her walking out the door on you.
You feel horrible and want nothing more than to take back the awful things that were said and do what it takes to get your ex girlfriend back.
And yet you've tried, you've attempted to contact her by phone and she doesn't answer, your text messages are met with silence, and you are starting to feel at a loss as to what to do to rectify the situation.
If you really want to get her back, you are going to have to change your approach, as the strategies you've been trying are obviously not working.
To get started on the path to get your ex girlfriend back, make one final communique.
Let her know that you are appreciative of the time you spent together, are in agreement that the breakup was for the best, and promise to leave her alone.
This last bit is the part that you have to stay strong to really be able to follow through on.
Don't make contact with her from this point on - it is imperative that you stay firm in your commitment to get her the space she said she needed.
If you run into her anywhere, just change your direction to avoid having to have a discussion with her.
This will send her the message that when you said you'd leave her alone, you were serious.
When you are with mutual friends, make sure that you always say something nice about her, but also highlight the fact that you are respecting her wishes for the break and are trying to move on.
When word of this gets back to your ex, your chances to get your ex girlfriend back will have improved significantly.
In time, she'll start to remember all the fun times you had together.
She will look upon the respectful manner you handled the breakup and how you stayed true to your promise to give her space.
She is likely to get in contact with your to see how you are doing, and now is the perfect opportunity to get your ex girlfriend back for good.