Breakups can be messy, very messy.
You may be prone to make bad choices, choices you wouldn't have dared made before the breakup.
There are several common mistakes people make but two most important mistakes that can kill any chance of your winning back your ex include drunken dialing and text message terrorism.
(1) Drunk Dialing If you haven't experienced this yourself, chances are...
you know someone who has done it.
What is it? It's those late night phone calls you think will do you good but don't.
Who do you call? The person who you just broken up with, in fact.
You may plead your case but you probably do so in a manner that does nothing more for them other than them going, "Yep, okay, whatever" and hang up.
Never call your ex when you have been drinking.
In fact, the best thing to do during those hurtful times is to not touch alcohol at all.
(2)Text Message Terrorism Everybody has been guilty at one stage or another of burning up the phone lines with repeated calls to someone.
Text message terrorism isn't limited to just text messaging.
It means calling your ex repeatedly by way of phone, email, or text messages.
When you decide to go this route, your ex is bound to change his or her number and email, regardless of the cost.
You realized later by doing this it doesn't win your ex back.
What should you be doing to win your ex back? Close those lines of communication for about a month.
Work through your pain and anger and absolutely do not engage in negative behaviors that could lead to these two mistakes.
If you are forced to see each other through work or school, be civil and kind but absolutely no personal discussions of any sort.