Get Your Fiance Back, With a Little Confidence, Maturity and Patience!
If you are trying, scheming and working to get your fiance back, that means you are in a sad situation right about now. You are standing there, watching your relationship crash and burn around you. The wedding is cancelled, and you had to tell friends and family that everything is off.
It hurts a little more each time you have to talk about it. But I want you to know that it does not have to be this way. You can get your fiance back and rebuild your love and relationship, maybe even stronger than it was before.
How on earth are you going to do that? Yes, it may seem impossible right now, but it is not. You may think that the problems in your relationship were all, or mostly, the fault of your fiance. Maybe you are right. Even so, here is a strange place to start fixing things: you! Yes, a good relationship starts with… you guessed it, your very own self.
If you begin with yourself, you will have a good chance of developing the kind of partnership we all want. Hopefully it will be with your fiance. If worst comes to worst and you cannot get him or her back, then it will be with someone brand new, with a new and improved you.
You see, we all want our mate to be confident, mature and strong (emotionally), someone who treats you with love and respect, and is your best friend. Come to think of it, a good sign of a person like that is, if they treat everyone in their circle with respect and friendship. Now, if you really want to get your fiance back, you must become that kind of person.
If you are very insecure or lacking confidence in yourself, you need to work on these areas. Now would be a great time to start. Everybody has some self-doubts and insecurities, no doubt about it. The trick is not to let them control and dominate you. Try this. Get your life as well-organized as possible. It is said that a cluttered life leads to a cluttered mind.
So get a regular job, always dress well and neatly, keep your apartment tidy, keep your personal affairs orderly and clear, and so on. This will boost your self-esteem and confidence, and make you appear more self-sufficient. Above all, you certainly do not want to look desperate. In any case, having a place for everything and everything in its place leaves you freer to think about, and do, other things. Not to mention the good impression it gives other people!
You can get your fiance back by showing them that you are feeling good about yourself, your life is under control, and you are mature enough to share it (your life, that is) with them in a loving, healthy manner. Try it, it really works. You will also find that people will be magnetically attracted to you if you stride through life with purpose, joy and confidence.
This goes for what you say as well, of course. Never be vague or indecisive. Avoid saying things like, I don't know, what am I going to do, etc. If you think about it, you probably DO know what you should do. Focus on that. Think about your goals and about what you want, both short term and longer term. Read the newspapers, so you can discuss current events intelligently, or at least so you know what is going on in the world.
All this does not come easily to many people, I know. You might need some counseling. It is well worth investing the time and money in yourself, so that your problems and insecurities do not dominate you. Bottom line? To get your fiance back, get yourself back first. Save yourself now, by making these improvements in your life.
Start right now and put some time and effort into it. I do not mean to sound harsh. I really want you to get your fiance back, but you must have the patience to prepare yourself, work at it, and change where necessary.
It hurts a little more each time you have to talk about it. But I want you to know that it does not have to be this way. You can get your fiance back and rebuild your love and relationship, maybe even stronger than it was before.
How on earth are you going to do that? Yes, it may seem impossible right now, but it is not. You may think that the problems in your relationship were all, or mostly, the fault of your fiance. Maybe you are right. Even so, here is a strange place to start fixing things: you! Yes, a good relationship starts with… you guessed it, your very own self.
If you begin with yourself, you will have a good chance of developing the kind of partnership we all want. Hopefully it will be with your fiance. If worst comes to worst and you cannot get him or her back, then it will be with someone brand new, with a new and improved you.
You see, we all want our mate to be confident, mature and strong (emotionally), someone who treats you with love and respect, and is your best friend. Come to think of it, a good sign of a person like that is, if they treat everyone in their circle with respect and friendship. Now, if you really want to get your fiance back, you must become that kind of person.
If you are very insecure or lacking confidence in yourself, you need to work on these areas. Now would be a great time to start. Everybody has some self-doubts and insecurities, no doubt about it. The trick is not to let them control and dominate you. Try this. Get your life as well-organized as possible. It is said that a cluttered life leads to a cluttered mind.
So get a regular job, always dress well and neatly, keep your apartment tidy, keep your personal affairs orderly and clear, and so on. This will boost your self-esteem and confidence, and make you appear more self-sufficient. Above all, you certainly do not want to look desperate. In any case, having a place for everything and everything in its place leaves you freer to think about, and do, other things. Not to mention the good impression it gives other people!
You can get your fiance back by showing them that you are feeling good about yourself, your life is under control, and you are mature enough to share it (your life, that is) with them in a loving, healthy manner. Try it, it really works. You will also find that people will be magnetically attracted to you if you stride through life with purpose, joy and confidence.
This goes for what you say as well, of course. Never be vague or indecisive. Avoid saying things like, I don't know, what am I going to do, etc. If you think about it, you probably DO know what you should do. Focus on that. Think about your goals and about what you want, both short term and longer term. Read the newspapers, so you can discuss current events intelligently, or at least so you know what is going on in the world.
All this does not come easily to many people, I know. You might need some counseling. It is well worth investing the time and money in yourself, so that your problems and insecurities do not dominate you. Bottom line? To get your fiance back, get yourself back first. Save yourself now, by making these improvements in your life.
Start right now and put some time and effort into it. I do not mean to sound harsh. I really want you to get your fiance back, but you must have the patience to prepare yourself, work at it, and change where necessary.
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