Being in double minds after the breakup is pretty normal for any guy/girl.
The intense sense of loss or guilt of having walked off from the relationship is responsible for such feeling.
If you are going thorough the same then read the following and come to a conclusion.
These tips will help restore your mental balance.
He/she is not hostile If you feel that even after the breakup your ex does not display any hostility towards you.
He/she is always polite and there is no hint of bitching or back biting then you don't have to give this question any second thoughts.
Expectations are reasonable Your ex left you as he/she wanted certain things sorted out and you did not take them seriously.
If you feel that the expectations are reasonable and there is not going to be much pressure on you then you can go ahead and reunite with him or her.
However, if the expectations are personality altering or too much to handle then it is better that the two of you are separated.
Inherently a good person If you feel that in spite of a few irritating habits and personality quirks your ex is inherently a good person and you have not experienced any hard times when you were together then you can certainly consider getting back together.
No one is perfect and you need to accept that fact.
Level of your feelings Your ex loved you deeply and you too felt the same towards him/her.
There was no question of infidelity and he/she was faithful towards you.
It was just that certain things blew out of proportion and it resulted in the breakup.
If this is the case then you can close your eyes and get back together.
Hopefully this time around things will be better.
Common values Your ex and you were raised in similar environments and shared common values and your views too were similar on most issues.
If that was the case then you should definitely get back with your ex.
It is guaranteed that there will be no compatibility issues between the two of you.
Serious about the relationship Your ex never shied away from commitment and was always forthcoming on the issue.
However, due to a strange twist of events you two drifted apart.
If the two of you can sort out the differences and bridge the divide then you should have a happy reunion.
The bond This is the last but the most important of considerations that you have to ponder on.
The bond shared by the two of you was great.
You had a great sex life and also when sex was not involved you two bonded well.
If that was the case then surely you should get back with your ex if fate permits.