False hope...
wishful thinking...
Are you worried that you're looking too much into signs that your ex might still love you? Just as there are signals that can be disregarded, there are also positive signs that your ex can't help but exhibit.
No matter how your relationship ended or what your ex is doing right now, you can always identify and respond to the signs of interest from an ex boyfriend or girlfriend.
Your Ex Suddenly Begins Initiating Communication With You Again Whenever an ex starts calling, texting, or even emailing you after a long period of silence? Something in his life has changed.
He's been either thinking about you or reflecting back upon your relationship in a positive way, and this is what prompted him to contact you.
Make sure you encourage such a response, but don't give away too much of yourself or look too deeply into a single phone call.
Playing it cool is always your best bet when trying to win back an exboyfriend or exgirlfriend.
Your Ex Takes a Sudden Interest In Your Life Again A guy or girl who's sweating you will want to know what you're up to.
When your ex starts asking about your private life - or especially your lovelife - he or she is feeling you out.
They want to know if the coast is clear for a reconciliation, should they choose to attempt one.
Whenever your ex asks about your situation, it's one of the more positive signs your ex wants you back.
An Ex Calls You For Your Opinion On Something When someone is done with you, they're usually done.
No ex is going to dial you up simply for your opinion or advice, especially if they're the one who ended the relationship.
They would realize this would be the same as leading you on, and they'd go elsewhere for answers.
So no, if your ex dials you up for this reason? He or she is just making an excuse to talk to you again.
They're thinking about you, and you're on their mind.
Your Ex Shows Up Somewhere They Know You Might Be Whether it's a party at a friend's house or a place near your job or school, whenever your ex makes an unannounced appearance in order to say "Hey, what's up?" It's always because they're missing you.
They felt the need to come see you face to face, which is an even greater sign of progress than the exboyfriend or exgirlfriend phone call.
Make sure to let your ex know you're happy to see them again, but don't be overly excited.
Stay casual, and let your ex chase you.
Your Ex Can't Look You In The Eye Getting your ex back requires you to spend some time apart, meaning you should drop out of your ex boyfriend or girlfriend's sight for a while.
That being said, sometimes you work together or share the same circle of friends, and this makes contact with your ex unavoidable.
If your ex can't look you straight in the eye when this happens? They don't feel comfortable for some reason...
and that reason is probably because they're reconsidering their decision to break up with you.
An Ex Wants To Meet Up With You Talking to your ex is one thing.
Physically seeing them is something entirely different.
One of the more definitive signs your ex wants you back is when they ask for a face-to-face meeting with you.
Either your ex has something to talk to you about, or he or she misses you enough to take this big step.
Agree to a neutral, casual location so you can reduce the effects of being nervous around them.
Calm, cool, confident - those three things will always help win back your ex boyfriend or girlfriend.
Friends Start Telling You About Your Ex Contacting Them One of the more cautious approaches your ex might take to getting you back will be through friends.
Whether they speak to your friends, their own friends, or even common acquaintances, any time your ex starts poking around for you in such a roundabout way, they're looking to rekindle something but don't know how to directly approach you.
Your Ex Makes His Status Very Well Known To You An ex who wants you back will first let you know that he or she is single...
and they'll let you know it very obviously.
In looking for signs your ex is still interested, watch for repeated assertions as to your ex's status of being single.
This is your ex's way of saying "Hey, don't go dating anyone else...
because I'm sure not".
It's an indication that they don't want you moving on without them.
Your Ex Becomes Suddenly Affectionate or Flirtatious Again In one of the final signals given off when they want a reconciliation, your ex will begin flirting or being affectionate with you again.
This is something that's hard to miss, especially since you already dated this person and know these signs well.
Reciprocate, but make sure to keep your full emotions in check.
Getting back together with someone is best accomplished through a series of small steps, rather than giant leaps all at once.