I know you want to learn how to get back together with your ex, but what I do not know is how you got to this point.
If I could speak to you one on one, I would ask these questions first.
Did you cheat and get dumped? Maybe it's the opposite? Perhaps you have no idea why you are broken up with your ex.
The point is there are too many possible reasons as to how you got to where you are and therefore we should seek out the path to the solution rather than the solution itself.
There are some big factors that will determine how you should go about getting your ex back.
Let's get the worst scenario out of the way first.
If you have cheated on your boyfriend or girlfriend and I don't care what some love guru might have told you, it will take a long time to earn your ex's trust back.
The good news is that you can definitely get your ex back, but the bad news is that it will require a lot of patience and dedication from you.
If you've been dumped or broken up because your ex cheated, it may not take too long for you to get your ex back but you will have to sacrifice a lot to accomplish that.
Most people cheat out of impulse and it's seldom something that people plan to do.
The fact is, they regret the moment is done and the infidelity usually ends the moment it begins.
Much of getting back together with your ex will rely on your willingness to forgive and your capacity to trust again.
It will require a leap of faith on your part.
Lastly, if your relationship is broken up and you have no idea as to why it had to end, the path to the solution to your dilemma might just be the easiest one.
This will only require you to think, your average normal person does not do something for the sake of nothing.
There has to be a reason why your ex had broken up with you and the only way to find out is to trace back.
Ideally you'd want to discuss this with your ex and talk it out, but we both know that is not going to happen.
No matter how insignificant your words, action, an event might have seemed to you, the same things could have been seen or interpreted very differently by your ex.
You will have to have lots of patience for this because you will do a lot of revisiting of past events and you may even have to discuss some personal things with friends and families to get some different perspective of the same events.
When you can finally see the world with different eyes, it will open up an opportunity with your ex again.