Get Over The Break Up First, And Then Decide Whether You Want To Get Your Ex Back Or Not!
The feelings you have at the moment are in total turmoil.
You are so confused.
Right now you feel that you never want to see your ex again, but at the same time there is this yearning to win your ex back as well.
What do you do? You are so afraid to make another mistake - do you try to get your ex back, or not? The only way to find out the answer to your true feelings towards your ex is if you first give yourself plenty of time to get over the break up.
There is so much hurt and anger inside you at the moment, that you cannot think straight.
If you try to win your ex back right now, then you could very well be making a big mistake again.
So leave your ex alone for now, and keep yourself busy with other things.
Put the break up and your ex right out of your mind now, and concentrate on yourself for the time being.
Do whatever you can to make yourself happy.
Don't do anything that will remind you of the break up or your ex - this will only make you become more depressed.
If possible, take a short holiday right away from it all.
This will be a great way to get over the break up, your ex, as well as heal yourself.
It could take a few days, it could take a few months - everyone is different, so just go with the flow until you are feeling a whole lot better - then you will be in a position to make a proper decision as to whether to win your ex back or not.
Once you are totally over the trauma you have been through, then analyze the feelings you have for your ex.
If you find that the love you have for your ex isn't as deep as it was before, then obviously you are over your ex, and there is no point in trying to win your ex back.
However, if you find that you do still love your ex deeply, then you know that you do indeed want to win your ex back then go ahead and call your ex and tell him/her that you would like to talk things over.
You are so confused.
Right now you feel that you never want to see your ex again, but at the same time there is this yearning to win your ex back as well.
What do you do? You are so afraid to make another mistake - do you try to get your ex back, or not? The only way to find out the answer to your true feelings towards your ex is if you first give yourself plenty of time to get over the break up.
There is so much hurt and anger inside you at the moment, that you cannot think straight.
If you try to win your ex back right now, then you could very well be making a big mistake again.
So leave your ex alone for now, and keep yourself busy with other things.
Put the break up and your ex right out of your mind now, and concentrate on yourself for the time being.
Do whatever you can to make yourself happy.
Don't do anything that will remind you of the break up or your ex - this will only make you become more depressed.
If possible, take a short holiday right away from it all.
This will be a great way to get over the break up, your ex, as well as heal yourself.
It could take a few days, it could take a few months - everyone is different, so just go with the flow until you are feeling a whole lot better - then you will be in a position to make a proper decision as to whether to win your ex back or not.
Once you are totally over the trauma you have been through, then analyze the feelings you have for your ex.
If you find that the love you have for your ex isn't as deep as it was before, then obviously you are over your ex, and there is no point in trying to win your ex back.
However, if you find that you do still love your ex deeply, then you know that you do indeed want to win your ex back then go ahead and call your ex and tell him/her that you would like to talk things over.
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