Need to Improve the Relationship With Your Partner Or Ex? Here"s How to Make Things Better
In pretty much all relationships there is differences on some level between partners.
It's what gives energy to the relationship.
A successful relationship is about making compromises for each other, and learning to live in harmony as you deal with hurdles along the way.
Sometimes the problems can become too much and they start to become unmanageable.
It causes stress, conflict and a variety of other problems that seem to take a negative effect on the relationship.
Regardless of anything that has happened up until this point, I am here to tell you that your relationship can be enhanced dramatically if you start using the following tips I am about to share with you.
Please pay close attention to the next tips.
Be Their Best Friend- Honestly consider this to yourself.
If you were the best friend of this person, how differently would you act around them? Would you start listening to them in a different way? Would you be less reactive or judging when they expressed a feeling or frustration? I think you would.
Anyway the point I am trying to get at here is that by adopting "the best friend" mentality you allow yourself to keep more of an open mind and open heart to your partner or ex.
You will be more receptive to them and put up less of a guard or resistance.
This is extremely effective in the way of communicating about problems or things that are normally cast aside by being to rigid about something.
Practicing this exercise will greatly enhance the quality of the relationship between you and your partner.
Show Them Your Romantic Side- One of the biggest problems of modern times is the distraction of electronic gadgets, busy lifestyles and constant distractions.
Remember in the olden days how things were more romantic? They didn't have cell phones, computers, etc.
Two people would go out on a good old fashioned date and have genuine conversation.
It seems that now things have become anything but genuine.
You need to take measures to ensure that genuine romance is truly restored in the relationship.
Buy them flowers, or one of the most romantic things is to write them a love letter.
Take a walk in the park and watch the stars.
Get rid of any distractions (cell phones, bluetooth, iPod) that take away from the true love between you and your partner and you can start to appreciate each others qualities more.
It's what gives energy to the relationship.
A successful relationship is about making compromises for each other, and learning to live in harmony as you deal with hurdles along the way.
Sometimes the problems can become too much and they start to become unmanageable.
It causes stress, conflict and a variety of other problems that seem to take a negative effect on the relationship.
Regardless of anything that has happened up until this point, I am here to tell you that your relationship can be enhanced dramatically if you start using the following tips I am about to share with you.
Please pay close attention to the next tips.
Be Their Best Friend- Honestly consider this to yourself.
If you were the best friend of this person, how differently would you act around them? Would you start listening to them in a different way? Would you be less reactive or judging when they expressed a feeling or frustration? I think you would.
Anyway the point I am trying to get at here is that by adopting "the best friend" mentality you allow yourself to keep more of an open mind and open heart to your partner or ex.
You will be more receptive to them and put up less of a guard or resistance.
This is extremely effective in the way of communicating about problems or things that are normally cast aside by being to rigid about something.
Practicing this exercise will greatly enhance the quality of the relationship between you and your partner.
Show Them Your Romantic Side- One of the biggest problems of modern times is the distraction of electronic gadgets, busy lifestyles and constant distractions.
Remember in the olden days how things were more romantic? They didn't have cell phones, computers, etc.
Two people would go out on a good old fashioned date and have genuine conversation.
It seems that now things have become anything but genuine.
You need to take measures to ensure that genuine romance is truly restored in the relationship.
Buy them flowers, or one of the most romantic things is to write them a love letter.
Take a walk in the park and watch the stars.
Get rid of any distractions (cell phones, bluetooth, iPod) that take away from the true love between you and your partner and you can start to appreciate each others qualities more.
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