If you are at present going through that terrible time when your love feels like it has come to an end, and you feel yourself wanting to plead - "Someone, please stop my divorce!" you are not  alone.
There are many people who have gone through the same process and saved their marriage and plenty who were unable to save the marriage but found themselves happy again afterward.
There are things that you can do now to help stop a divorce or permanent break up, and correct problems before they get to that point.
You must first realize, though, that as much as you may want to save your relationship you it may be impossible to do so.
  Make sure that you prepare yourself mentally for all possible outcomes.
This is not being pessimistic, it is being realistic which is what you need to be.
You should make use of family therapy or seek out marriage counselors.
They have been well trained and have a lot of experience helping people through these times.
Even if there is infidelity involved, they may still be able to help.
Many marriages have been brought back from the edge because of good counseling and therapy.
They are used to dealing with infidelity in relationships, depression, and many of the other things that stress a relationship to the point of divorce, or total breakup.
Marriage counseling does not have to be expensive either.
There are plenty of good opportunities for you to use to get good relationship advice before you need to see a divorce lawyer.
The one thing that you MUST learn that may help stop your divorce before you ever get a lawyer involved is not to argue.
 Arguing will only make the situation worse.
People try calling it reasoning, but the truth is you are trying to force your partner to feel differently than they do.
If you are serious and you want to "stop my divorce" ,then you need to realize that your battle is against your separation, NOT your spouse ! The more you argue with them and   point out that they are wrong the more they will be wrong in your own mind.
Don't try to defend yourself.
You may be right, but don't try to convince your partner of that.
 Find the truth in their argument and agree with that.
The more you can agree with the things they say, the more THEY will be right.
This will make them see that you are willing to do what you want them to do, see your side of the story.
If you are willing to be honest and accept what your partner trying to say, then they are more likely to listening to your side.
Marriage counselors are great at helping you understand how to communicate better if you really want to "stop my divorce.
" This is only the start of things that you can do to help when you are wanting to "stop my divorce".
Quit talking about it and start acting on it.
Your marriage will only have a chance to survive if you are willing to act.