A woman commonly goes through several stages during a break up.
First is anger-How dare he do this to me? Second is low self esteem-What did I do wrong? Third is depression-Why did it have to end? It is during this third stage that you often become desperate to find ways to get your ex boyfriend back.
In fact, you may be so desperate that you do things that actually push him farther away and could lose him to you forever.
There are right and wrong ways to get your ex boyfriend back, and the following tempting traps should be avoided at all costs.
1.
No stalking! Do not call your ex boyfriend twenty times a day leaving voice mail messages and sending text messages constantly because he won't answer your phone calls.
Don't send tons of emails begging for forgiveness, and don't hide out every single place he goes and at his house.
This isn't going to get your ex boyfriend back, but it might get you a restraining order.
2.
Have some pride.
It's great to apologize to your ex boyfriend for the things you did wrong or you part in a fight that led to the breakup.
By all means apologize profusely.
But only do it once.
You have to have some pride.
Fawning over your ex constantly will only be a turn off, and make him think you have no self esteem at all.
3.
Don't be vindictive.
You will not get your ex boyfriend back by making his life miserable.
No sending virus filled emails, no pranks on his house, friends, pets, or car.
You have to play things nice, even if you are angry with him.