Are you looking for ways to get back at your ex? If so, you need to think about what exactly you want the outcome of your revenge to be.
Are you trying to break off the relationship for good? Or are you really looking for a way to get back together with your ex? Break ups happen, and stressful as they are, you need to be careful when it comes to getting back at your ex.
So if you're wishing you could somehow rekindle your relationship, here are 5 healthy tips to get back at your ex that also double as great methods for getting back together with your ex.
1.
Show your strength.
Nobody wants a needy cling-on dragging them down in life, and this is so true when it comes to a broken relationship.
Stop the begging, clinging, and otherwise immature behavior usually typical of a three-year-old.
Show your ex that you are an independent, mature spirit when it comes to your relationship by acting as though you can move on in your life without them.
Once you've moved on, your ex will realize that they haven't.
How do you think that will make them feel? 2.
Keep communications to a minimum.
If you're looking to reopen the doors of communication sometime, this may seem like a counterproductive pursuit, but believe me, it's what your relationship needs right now.
Taking a break from your ex by severing communications for the time being is one of the most important steps in getting back at your ex or when trying to get your ex back.
Either way, your silence will pique your ex's curiosity and have them sneaking peeks at their Facebook, cell phones, and Twitter when they don't hear from you.
Then let them stew in their misery for a while.
Once they've finished, they will realize how valuable your relationship was.
3.
Be flexible with your ex.
Don't start demanding that your ex move out, or threaten them with a date they need pick up their things by.
Give them options, and listen to them and sympathize once in a while.
When they see this side of you, your ex will probably be inspired to rebuild the lines of communication that were abandoned when you broke up.
4.
Be social.
With your friends - not your ex.
Call up your friends and go out to eat.
Plan some entertainment for your little group.
This doesn't mean you have to rush to get another date, and you don't even have to invite friends of the opposite sex.
By being a fun, social person that other people want to be around, you'll give your ex second thoughts about why they left you.
5.
Be yourself.
It sounds cliche, and if being yourself means being a meanie, please try to be better.
But your ex was your soul mate to begin with when your relationship first got off the ground, so make sure you're that same person they fell in love with the first time around.
By renewing those qualities in yourself, your ex will certainly take notice of your new attitude as well.