You find yourself staring on the phone, waiting for it to ring even at the oddest hours of the night.
You pass by that favorite coffee shop where you used to meet him for breakfast and you feel a certain thug in your heart.
You look around the train station, hoping to catch a familiar profile among the hundred commuters there.
You are suffering from withdrawal symptoms, the kind that follow every episode of a broken heart! Sooner or later, you would have to face the bitter truth that you had lost the one you love.
With acceptance comes understanding, which leads to gaining the strength back to either move on or to continue fighting for the one you love.
  How would you know if it is the right time to let go of this relationship or to keep on holding on to it and trying to get your ex back? In spite of the many advices that you would probably hear from your family or friends, you alone can determine if your relationship stands the chance of being revived.
  Understand what caused the breakup in the first place.
Consider if the cause of the breakup are just petty disagreements or major arguments that can undermine harmony in the relationship in the long run.
Analyze also if the cause of these arguments are personality disorders, such as if one (or both of you) had been controlling or abusive.
If these issues are not addressed properly during the early years of the relationship, chances are, they will remain issues even as the relationship progresses.
  Once you've pinpointed the cause of your breakup, ask yourself if you are willing to work towards resolution of these issues either through a compromise or by going through counseling with your partner.
If your partner is uncooperative, that may be a clear sign that he is not as intent on keeping the relationship as you are.
  Should you work on getting your ex back? Only if your heart tells you that it is worth the try.
You should also see signs coming from him that he welcomes the idea of giving it another try.
Otherwise, if you see that the effort of reviving the relationship is merely coming from you, getting your ex back may take more than love, but also patience to try everything possible to get him back.
  A good time off from one another may allow you both to analyze the relationship with a more objective point of view.
So, make the most of the time of the breakup and stay away from thoughts of self pity.
Instead, analyze where you had gone wrong and on what areas you could improve yourself.
Ask yourself if this is really the person you would like to end up with and if this person is really worth your love.
  If you are convinced that it is worth the try, make yourself the woman he fell in love with before.
Be his best friend, and make yourself indispensable in his life.
Give him some space and when he realizes how much he misses you, he may find his own way back to your heart.
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