Winning your boyfriend back does not have to be a hopeless struggle! But the problem is that your well intentioned efforts to win him back are probably making things worse by pushing him away.
Have you noticed that the more you push to get him back the more he pulls away? Don't give up yet! I was able to save my relationship and you can do it too.
But I had to fight my urge to "fight" to get him back and instead appeal to his natural guy instincts.
You see, guys want what they can't have.
If you're too available, he will take you for granted.
If you want him back, here's what you must do: Back off, give him some space and allow him some time to naturally miss you.
This is the exact opposite of what you instinctively want to do which is probably call all the time, tell him how much you love him, etc.
But that's exactly what you DON'T want to do right now.
He will start missing you now that he doesn't feel pressured.
You can see why it would be hard for him to miss you if you're always after him right? Yes, I know backing off and giving him some space is a lot easier said than done, especially if you're really anxious to get him back now.
Don't fall back into you old needy ways and drunk dial him at 3 am! You're going to have to find the discipline to act differently if you want to win your boyfriend back.
I was able to save my relationship using this approach and if I can do it, so can you!