Have you recently lost a loved one to a relationship breakup? Understandably, this can be quite disconcerting.
This is because relationships make up who we are.
Statistics show that 2 out of every 5 relationships hit the rocks every year.
The breakup of a valued relationship can diminish one's quality of life, especially if the relationship was a happy one.
When a relationship tanks, many people go into a severe depression and have negative self-esteem.
This also causes them to have a negative outlook on life.
But it is quite possible to win your ex back regardless of whether they eloped with someone else or not.
But you have to know how.
One of the first things to do in the quest to win your ex back is to get a grip of yourself.
Many people lose focus and totally give up on life.
In order to win your ex, you must stay on top of your emotions.
True, there will be good days and bad days.
There will be days you will not feel like getting out of bed.
This is totally understandable and experts do agree that a healthy grieving period is necessary for you to process the loss.
But you must not let your ex know what you are going through.
The more your ex knows that you are coming apart because of them the more they are likely to trash you even more.
You must radiate confidence especially whenever you are in your ex's presence.
In order to win your ex back, you must also remain extremely friendly.
By friendly we mean to both your ex and his or her friends and family.
Many people make the mistake of being hostile to their ex.
This only serves to give them more reason to stay away from you and reinforces the notion that you are worthy of being dumped.
But maintaining a friendly relationship lays a foundation for a comeback.
This also goes for his or her friends.
Remembering their birthdays and special holidays and sending them gifts helps a great deal.
Keeping your ex's friends and family members in your life also helps you to have someone who can put in a good word for you to your ex.
Whenever a relationship breaks, your ex will most likely confide in these very people and by now they know a lot about you.
Winning them will go a long way to winning your ex back.
Winning your ex can be a great achievement, but you must mentally prepare yourself for not winning them back.
This means you must pursue other avenues in life such as hobbies, career, school and volunteer work at your local community center.
These are examples of how you can fill your life with activity that will enrich your life in the eventuality that your ex never comes back.
When you meet your ex, you must give off the impression that you are busy and pursuing other things in life.