Still trying to come to grips with the breakup? Do you resent (on the verge of detest) your ex for putting you through this? Do you feel as though you've become overwhelmed with negative emotions? While it's natural to feel cheated and used, the sooner you get out of this negative funk you're in, the better off things are going to be.
There are two reasons for this: first of all, you're definitely not going to attract your ex while you are in such a negative mood.
Secondly, your entire life, including everything outside of your ex and the relationship, is going to suffer.
Every hour of every day is going to be a struggle unless you can snap out of this.
Even though this is probably the worst thing you've ever gone through, it can get much worse if people continually see you in this state.
The negativity you're giving off is saying, "stay away" in no uncertain terms.
Not only that, but when your ex sees you, you are going to look miserable, desperate, and depressed.
These character traits definitely don't create desire and attraction.
And if you're thinking about playing on your ex's guilt, guess again.
Though you may get their pity, you definitely won't create attraction.
So the only hope you have now is to change things in a hurry.
Drop the "victim" mentality, stop moping, and start taking action that will help you get your ex back in the future.
Be patient because this isn't going to happen overnight.
The most important thing for now is to stop projecting yourself in a negative way and show them that there's more to you than meets the eye.