Want your boyfriend back in your life? Want him to be yours and yours only? The good news is there is a proven method to use, (even after a bad breakup) if you have decided you want your boyfriend back and need advice you can trust to know what to do next.
Let's look back at the situation.
You have probably just gone through hearing that your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore and doesn't want to be with you.
You may have heard that classic "It's not you, it's me! I really need some space.
" (What a chestnut that one is!) Whatever the scene, you no doubt are feeling sad lonely and confused by now.
You know you don't want to lose him and are finding all you can do is think about him.
You know you would do anything in the world and that you just want your boyfriend back.
Right? Well don't panic.
If you want your boyfriend back by your side it is most important you stop, take a deep breath, and don't panic! You have to understand that many of the things you are feeling right now stem from a sense of panic inside yourself.
It's the most common reaction people have to breaking up so you are not alone in your feelings.
The panic stems from your loss of control.
All of a sudden things are different, everything has changed and you feel lost and alone.
Panic! All your actions are then based on regaining control.
The secrets for you to be able to make up when you want your boyfriend back so desperately, begin with the following advice.
This advice is most effective when you are first breaking up, especially when you are dealing with the 'panic' phase.
Secret #1 : You must take a proper break from the relationship.
This means cooling off completely.
No emails, no calls no pre-planned "accidental meetings".
Don't alienate your man by being needy.
When you want your boyfriend back the most important first step is to give them space.
Secret #2: Don't avoid him if a meeting happens that is unplanned.
There may be uncontrollable circumstances (such as work and shared friends) that make seeing him inevitable.
What you must do though when you want your boyfriend back, is to act calm, cool and collected.
Say hello and move away! (Even when you don't feel like it).
He will appreciate your new sense of control.
Secret#3 Make this break time just for you.
It will give you chance to cool off your emotions and get your head straight.
See old friends, maybe start a new activity.
Go out and have some fun without guilt! When you want your boyfriend back you need a definite and well planned course of action.
You can certainly get your boyfriend back so don't doubt that.
Your head must be in the right place though so that you can start on that path.
Remember, when you want your boyfriend back you must not panic.
There is much more to do, but in the beginning, everything else flows from this action.