So you've found yourself on the receiving end of being dumped.
I know how you feel, I've been there myself.
The sleepless nights, not being able to eat, always wondering where she is and who's she's with...
it's enough to drive you crazy.
Why do women dump men? And how can you win her back? If a reunion is what you really want, then you need to learn exactly what avoid the mistakes almost all guys make when trying to to win back their ex.
Why do women dump men? Men and women leave relationships for different reasons.
Yes, it can be tough trying to figure out what's going on in a woman's mind.
One thing you should remember: What a woman says rarely reveals how she truly feels.
Women almost always want to feel appreciated.
Being noticed for the little things she does every day goes a long way.
If you don't do this, she will start to feel that you're taking her for granted.
Eventually she will seek out someone else who pays more attention to her.
Arguments.
If you're constantly picking on her for the most trivial things, this will drive her away.
Starting fights over mundane things is usually a sign that something deeper is bothering you.
You need to work on this.
How can you win her back? It depends on how much damage has been done.
If you're guilty of doing a lot of the behavior under 'why do women dump men' then if may take a bit longer.
Keep in mind there are no impossible situations.
People get back together all the time...
you can too.
First, you must stop any behavior that comes across as needy and desperate.
A woman wants to be with a man who is strong and independent.
Stop any and all late night phone calls, arguing about the relationship, etc.
If you become pushy at this point, she will only pull farther away from you.
It's human nature for someone to withdraw if they feel pressured.
Give her some space.
Develop an attitude of detachment.
Work on improving yourself.
She will see these positive changes and start to see you differently.
You're no longer chasing her and this will usually cause her to become interested again.
Remember, it's human nature to pull away from someone who is pushing.
Work with human nature not against it.
You must develop the self discipline to relax, give her some space and start doing things that make you happy and improve your life.
Doing this will send a message to her that you're a strong and independent man and that your life is going great without her.
She will naturally be drawn towards you.
The idea is to get her interested again so the two of you can start to really communicate about the problems that broke up your relationship.