So you've decided that you'd like to win your ex back...
but how do you do this? So often I hear women saying they have tried everything but nothing seems to work.
Does this describe your situation? Fortunately you can learn the right things to do and say in order to win him back...
but you're going to have to be careful to avoid the common mistakes that will push him away from you.
Trying to talk him into taking you back, promising you'll change, showing up where he is and so on, these are all examples of behaviors that will tend to push him away.
You can win your ex back much easier if you take a fresh approach.
Back off and give your ex some breathing room.
Get your head clear and develop your inner strength and independence.
Not contacting your ex for a while is going to be tough so make sure you keep yourself busy doing positive activities.
It's better to back off and give the relationship a break.
Backing off relieves any pressure he might have been feeling.
He will miss you and be much more open to getting back together.
Your ex will see that you're no longer chasing him and will naturally be drawn toward you.
You're actually become somewhat mysterious and unavailable and this can work in your favor.
Getting your head clear and giving the relationship a break is one of the first things you must do.
Once you understand human nature you will be less inclined to make the mistakes almost everyone makes when trying to get back together with a loved one.
You're going to need some self discipline to keep on track.
Don't hesitate to seek out advice that can help guide you through this tough time.
Of course the process of getting him back is probably going to involve more than just backing off and giving him space.
But this is a very important first step in the right direction.
If you're able to accomplish this, then everything else should be easier.
It's very possible to get your ex back, but you're going to have to learn how to work with his natural instincts instead of fighting against them.