Secret Technique to Get Your Ex to Return Your Phone Calls
Did you know that there are "magic" words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? The cool thing is that this works for both ex boyfriends, and ex girlfriends.
I realize this sounds pretty difficult to believe, like some type of gimmick, but believe me--there indeed ARE words that will cause your ex to feel almost compelled to return your call.
I discovered this little secret while doing my own, private research.
I was trying to figure out a way to help out a friend of mine who was devastated when his girlfriend of 2 years unexpectedly broke up with him.
The poor sap couldn't even get her to answer his calls.
I dug into the books at my local library, focusing my research on the psychology of persuasion.
What I discovered will surprise you.
When I found out how simple it is to get someone to return your calls, I quickly let my friend in on it.
He used this amazingly powerful, yet ridiculously simple, technique and quickly got his ex to call him back.
How the rest went is his personal business so I'll leave it at that.
I'm going to share this secret technique with you because this is one of the biggest problems that most people just like you face when trying to put their relationship back together.
That's why I decided to answer, "How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?" But, before I begin, I must warn you that if you use this technique, and don't have a follow up plan that includes a complete strategy, then you may be doing your relationship more harm than good than if they never returned your call.
You've been forewarned, and please take heed.
Getting back to our subject, before I reveal my secret technique, I'm going to first let you in on what NOT to say.
There are two categories that I'm going to discuss.
First is the "plead," and second is the "emergency.
" Starting with the plead--does this sound familiar? "Jenny, will you please, PLEASE call me.
This is the 5th time today that I've called.
I really, REALLY, need to talk to you.
Call me.
" Next is the emergency.
Here's an example, "Jack, please call me.
This is an emergency.
Call me as soon as you get this message.
" Do you see what's wrong with either of these approaches? Even someone who hasn't done any research on psychology can see that those approaches will hardly ever work so I won't waist your time trying to explain further.
Besides, you want to know what will actually work, and not what doesn't.
Having said that, I want to introduce you to the two most powerful forces in the human mind...
They are curiosity, and self interest.
The huge secret I discovered from my research is that you have to combine them to create an extremely powerful psychological effect.
When you unite the two, you have a recipe that appears to be almost "magic.
" Believe me; it's not magic at all.
It's merely how the psychology of the mind, and it'll work almost every time.
Here's an example for how to use this technique.
Make sure to use a friendly tone when you do it: "Hello Mary, its John.
I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate what you did for me the other day.
Please call so I can thank you in person.
" If you've been paying attention, then you should see that the statement above uses both curiosity, AND self interest.
What did Mary do for John? Why does John appreciate it? Since John used such a pleasant voice and was upbeat when he left the message, Mary is sure that it's something great, and won't be able to resist calling.
Before you go around calling your ex you need to set this up.
Simply calling them and then not having a follow up won't do you any good.
You'll have to figure out something positive they did that's worthy of your appreciation.
It doesn't have to be anything huge, but it does have to be plausible.
Something important to consider is that if you finally get them to return your call, but you have no underlying strategy, you can do more DAMAGE than good.
What I mean is that the things you do to prepare yourself before, during and after you persuade them to call you back is a hundred times more important than just getting them to call you back.
I hope this makes sense.
I realize this sounds pretty difficult to believe, like some type of gimmick, but believe me--there indeed ARE words that will cause your ex to feel almost compelled to return your call.
I discovered this little secret while doing my own, private research.
I was trying to figure out a way to help out a friend of mine who was devastated when his girlfriend of 2 years unexpectedly broke up with him.
The poor sap couldn't even get her to answer his calls.
I dug into the books at my local library, focusing my research on the psychology of persuasion.
What I discovered will surprise you.
When I found out how simple it is to get someone to return your calls, I quickly let my friend in on it.
He used this amazingly powerful, yet ridiculously simple, technique and quickly got his ex to call him back.
How the rest went is his personal business so I'll leave it at that.
I'm going to share this secret technique with you because this is one of the biggest problems that most people just like you face when trying to put their relationship back together.
That's why I decided to answer, "How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?" But, before I begin, I must warn you that if you use this technique, and don't have a follow up plan that includes a complete strategy, then you may be doing your relationship more harm than good than if they never returned your call.
You've been forewarned, and please take heed.
Getting back to our subject, before I reveal my secret technique, I'm going to first let you in on what NOT to say.
There are two categories that I'm going to discuss.
First is the "plead," and second is the "emergency.
" Starting with the plead--does this sound familiar? "Jenny, will you please, PLEASE call me.
This is the 5th time today that I've called.
I really, REALLY, need to talk to you.
Call me.
" Next is the emergency.
Here's an example, "Jack, please call me.
This is an emergency.
Call me as soon as you get this message.
" Do you see what's wrong with either of these approaches? Even someone who hasn't done any research on psychology can see that those approaches will hardly ever work so I won't waist your time trying to explain further.
Besides, you want to know what will actually work, and not what doesn't.
Having said that, I want to introduce you to the two most powerful forces in the human mind...
They are curiosity, and self interest.
The huge secret I discovered from my research is that you have to combine them to create an extremely powerful psychological effect.
When you unite the two, you have a recipe that appears to be almost "magic.
" Believe me; it's not magic at all.
It's merely how the psychology of the mind, and it'll work almost every time.
Here's an example for how to use this technique.
Make sure to use a friendly tone when you do it: "Hello Mary, its John.
I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate what you did for me the other day.
Please call so I can thank you in person.
" If you've been paying attention, then you should see that the statement above uses both curiosity, AND self interest.
What did Mary do for John? Why does John appreciate it? Since John used such a pleasant voice and was upbeat when he left the message, Mary is sure that it's something great, and won't be able to resist calling.
Before you go around calling your ex you need to set this up.
Simply calling them and then not having a follow up won't do you any good.
You'll have to figure out something positive they did that's worthy of your appreciation.
It doesn't have to be anything huge, but it does have to be plausible.
Something important to consider is that if you finally get them to return your call, but you have no underlying strategy, you can do more DAMAGE than good.
What I mean is that the things you do to prepare yourself before, during and after you persuade them to call you back is a hundred times more important than just getting them to call you back.
I hope this makes sense.
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