Playing On Your Ex"s Sympathy After The Break Up? You Won"t Be Getting Your Ex Back This Way!
You are feeling so sorry for yourself right now, that you expect everyone to feel sorry for you.
This may be true when it comes to your family and friends, but I can tell you now, trying to use this tactic on your ex will not be getting your ex back.
There is no way you can look for sympathy from someone who is hurting right now and probably absolutely VERY angry with you as well.
You more than likely said some terrible things to your ex so instead of looking for pity from him/her, expect the cold shoulder.
Your ex doesn't want to talk to you right now, forget it.
Also, getting your ex back at this stage is just a dream - there are things to do before you can try talking your ex into coming back to you.
Even if you try to call your ex and sob your heart out, and beg to be taken back, your ex will probably think that you are the biggest idiot around and will DEFINITELY want NOTHING to do with you! In fact, there is a good chance that your ex will actually enjoy hearing you so upset and miserable.
After all, you hurt your ex's feelings really badly during the argument, so why should he/she feel sorry because you're hurting? You might have the idea of getting your friends and family to tell your ex your whole sad story - this won't work either.
It will only embarrass your ex, knowing that you have been talking to everyone else about something that is so private.
It is humiliating, and you shouldn't have done it.
The only possible way to getting your ex back without having to resort to looking for pity, is to leave your ex alone for a while, and when all the bad feelings have passed, then have a go and try convincing your ex to give you another chance.
This may be true when it comes to your family and friends, but I can tell you now, trying to use this tactic on your ex will not be getting your ex back.
There is no way you can look for sympathy from someone who is hurting right now and probably absolutely VERY angry with you as well.
You more than likely said some terrible things to your ex so instead of looking for pity from him/her, expect the cold shoulder.
Your ex doesn't want to talk to you right now, forget it.
Also, getting your ex back at this stage is just a dream - there are things to do before you can try talking your ex into coming back to you.
Even if you try to call your ex and sob your heart out, and beg to be taken back, your ex will probably think that you are the biggest idiot around and will DEFINITELY want NOTHING to do with you! In fact, there is a good chance that your ex will actually enjoy hearing you so upset and miserable.
After all, you hurt your ex's feelings really badly during the argument, so why should he/she feel sorry because you're hurting? You might have the idea of getting your friends and family to tell your ex your whole sad story - this won't work either.
It will only embarrass your ex, knowing that you have been talking to everyone else about something that is so private.
It is humiliating, and you shouldn't have done it.
The only possible way to getting your ex back without having to resort to looking for pity, is to leave your ex alone for a while, and when all the bad feelings have passed, then have a go and try convincing your ex to give you another chance.
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