The next worst thing that can crush your heart after a break up is to see your ex boyfriend has moved on.
It is difficult if you have not gotten over our ex boyfriend as fast as he has gotten over you.
So, it is completely natural when you feel a pang of jealousy when you see another girl clinging to his arm.
Some women will recommend that you do the same and find a new man by your side to make your ex boyfriend jealous.
What you don't know is that by doing so, it often leads to failure to capture the heart of your ex boyfriend.
If your ex boyfriend has moved on and is really in love with his new girlfriend, he will not get jealous when he sees you with another man.
If he did notice that your act is to make him jealous, he will despise you even more for pulling such a childish act.
It is easy for you to fall prey to criticize his new girlfriend and it is not fair.
You only make yourself bitter and miserable by speaking ill of his new girlfriend.
The good news is that, even when your ex boyfriend has moved on it does not mean that you two cannot be friends.
You still can if you need his help to get over it.
Make sure you are not using the reason to be his friend just to lure him back to you.
When your ex boyfriend has moved on, you can shift the anger and pain to yourself and get on with your life as well.
Invest in your emotional well being and learn to be a happy person.
Being happy is a choice and you can control it.
You need to remember that happy people radiate a glow in them and attracts other.
Your ex boyfriend may even come back to you when he sees the new you.
Even if you don't get your ex boyfriend back, you can easily attract someone who suits you better.
Remember that life still goes on after a break up.
You just need to learn from it and become better.