One of the biggest mistakes a woman can make after splitting up with their boyfriend is instantly try to win them back.
Although this might seem like the best thing to do at the time, the best thing to do is hang back and work out a few things.
Let's have a look at the best approach to take.
After your boyfriend has left you it's time to get your thinking cap on.
If you really want to win back your ex boyfriend you need to think about what has went wrong in the first place.
Why exactly has he left you? If he hasn't actually said why, it usually isn't that hard to work out anyway.
Deep down you'll probably know the reasons yourself.
Once you have established the reasons your boyfriend has left, you can now start taking some action.
If you're willing to change and address the problems, then by all means, go ahead and do it.
You might find that you feel better in yourself with the changes you make.
Remember though, if your boyfriend tells you that there is a problem with you that you feel strongly he is wrong about, don't go changing to please somebody else.
Relationships are all about compromise but if you feel your having to change in to a person that's not yourself then maybe he's not the right man for you.
If you still feel strongly about winning back your ex boyfriend then follow these steps and take some action.
90% of break ups can be solved simply through communication.