Obviously if you are looking to get your ex back you are going through a very difficult time in your life.
Any relationship split is never easy and someone, usually both people are left feeling confused and lonely.
Winning back the lost love would make you feel complete again, especially if your relationship is built on foundations stronger than they ever have been in the past.
But what are you going to do to get them back? Simple, do not call them!   This obviously seem strange and completely goes against the grain.
In fact it usually goes against what your head and heart are telling you to do.
At this stage in the split people are usually very emotional and all we want to do is call our ex up and tell them how much we love them and how much we missed them and how much it would be different if we got back together.
  How do you think this will make you look to your ex? Attractive, independent? I don't think so!   You first got together in your relationship because you saw something each other that was very attractive.
You saw good looks, charm and confidence.
You probably got on very well together and felt at ease with each other.
  By calling up your ex every five minutes you simply come over as being needy and desperate.
Certainly not attractive and confident.
So just hold your horses for the time being and do not call, text, e-mail or get in touch with them for a couple of weeks.
  Allow some time for the dust to settle and they may begin to issue before you even move onto the next step in getting your ex back.