First off, do you really want your ex back? Lots of men tell themselves that they'd like to be back with their ex -girlfriends, or at least that they would if only the old problems weren't there in the relationship any more.
Most of these guys are sincere about this, but some just say that when really they prefer a life of cold lonely sadness.
So it's important to know which of these types of guy you are, or you could be making a big mistake by employing techniques that will undoubtedly get your ex-girlfriend back into your life.
So you do want your ex back, then? It can be done, and remarkably quickly and easily and cheaply, by approaching the problem in the correct way.
That means no late night drunken phone calls begging her to come back, no showing up at her work with a box of chocolates, no explaining to her every one of her flaws and what she should do about them to more effectively please you.
There's a time and a place for all of these things, but it won't come until after you've won her back.
But even if you have already made all these mistakes and more, you can still win your girlfriend back.
What if instead of merely getting your ex-girlfriend back into the same relationship that didn't work out before, you could have her crawling back to you, ready to make all of the changes necessary for a perfectly happy relationship? This can be done as well, if you approach the problem in the correct way.