Women struggle with relationships more then men do. I am sure men have nights of pain as well, but for women it is extremely hard to let go. Why is it so?

As biology and chemistry of a woman suggest, whoever a woman sleeps with she bonds to him in a very different way. She develops this trust, and feeling of attachment which is hard to get rid of within a weeks' time.

The reason why women are wiling to be with men who cheat on them, are financially broke, steal from them, beat them, and what not.

Why don't they leave them?

The answer is the dependability and the fear that what they would do once he is gone. They feel that if their relationship ends they will never be able to find love again. That Is why they even go ahead and marry their failed boyfriends. When they start living together obviously the mess becomes bigger and bigger. But the end result is always the same. A divorce!

A woman feels like trash after a divorce or a breakup, even though she would be right for getting one. She feels she has made a wrong decision, and might try to be extremely harsh to her self.

But all the women out there need to stop doing this. When they are with partners who are less emotional then them, or less intelligent, or less interested. They try to change them, but guess what you can never change someone who is not willing to change, and in the end everybody returns to their old self.

So stop pushing your relationship and forcing your self just for the sake of love, or insecurity. You can find love, and maybe he is out there waiting to be with a woman like you. If you are high spirited, good human being no man can destroy you. Remember to not let go of your integrity for anyone.

Learn to live again, and remember your Mr. right is truly the one who shares the relationship based upon equality, someone who calls the shorts with you, not only you doing all the work. And someone who will never ever hurt you.