In order to give a woman earth shattering orgasms you need to know how to handle yourself.
Women get their pleasure differently from men.
The sexual pleasure of a woman is comprised of physical stimulation and a mental one.
This means that unlike your own pleasure, you need to be able to make sure both sides of the female orgasm equation are present.
Here are some tips for giving women extra-powerful orgasms 1.
Create a mood - As I said, a woman's pleasure is connected to her mood and the ambience you create.
Here are some suggestions: dim the lights, put on some soft music, make sure your room and bed are clean, spray the bedroom with a soft and pleasant aroma.
Furthermore, don't neglect the foreplay.
This is crucial as women need to this to get into the mood for sex.
A massage, caresses, and sweet talking will go along way.
Trust me, I know.
Take your time with the foreplay, it will be worth it.
2.
Make her come first - This is an important concept which many men fail to grasp.
On average women take longer to climax than men do, so if you're relying on intercourse to give her an orgasm, you're playing against the odds, really.
You need to make sure that she is satisfied beforehand.
Got it? This can be done orally, or with your fingers.
3.
Assume the position - During intercourse you need to make every stroke count.
In general, women like their men to be secure and confident in bed.
They also like them strong.
Make your thrusts deep and hard.
Don't overdo things.
Just make sure that she feels that she's in the hands of a confident and capable man.
Follow these 3 tips and you've covered the mental and physical side of the female orgasm.