So you want to get your ex boyfriend back and you have no idea how to go about it. Well you're not alone, I know that whenever I had an ex boyfriend walk out on me, not only were they some of the most painful moments of my life, I never knew what to do or where to turn! I cried, I didn't eat, I sat in shock and my heart ached like hell. All I wanted to do was to find a way to get my ex back into my life so that heartache would stop. So trust me, I really do understand where you're coming from.

So here's the thing you really want to do to get your ex boyfriend back: you're going to have to play it smart. I did all the usual dumb things before I figured this one out: I phoned him, I sent texts, emails and I even humiliated myself with one particular ex by turning up at his work place a sobbing wreck - so yeah, avoiding this mistakes is key. Play it smart, that means when he tells you he wants out, LET HIM GO!

Sounds wrong doesn't it? But trust me, it's the only way you are going to get your ex boyfriend back into your life for good. Agree the break up and you will have taken the first brilliant step to get your ex boyfriend back. You will appear calm, rational and level headed to your ex. No pleading and the sobbing, just accept.

Now you have roughly one month to get your head together. During this month you make NO contact whatsoever with your ex boyfriend. Trust me on this, to get your ex boyfriend back you need to take a break from him. Whatever caused the break up needs time to settle and you both need time to think. Work on yourself. Take some exercise classes, go on a trip, have some fun with your friends. Let's face it, you're going to have a lot of spare time and it is vital that you fill that time in a positive way and you are not sitting in a room thinking about your ex.

When the month is up, make contact with your ex. Phone him up and have a friendly conversation with him and ask for a meeting. The time apart will have mellowed both of you and you will both have put things into perspective. To get your ex boyfriend back you need to be sure that you are ready to apologise for anything that you may have done to cause the breakup. Make sure you give your ex space and time to say what they need to say. Ask your ex for a second chance and then leave it at that. Go home and wait for a phone call. Chances are your ex will call you in a few days and agree to give the relationship a second chance.

If he doesn't then you either leave it at that and move on. Or if you are positive that you want to get your ex back then you need a plan. To get your ex boyfriend back click on the link to my site below. It will take you to a review of the book that saved my relationship and helped me get my ex back.