How To Impress Girls
Women love when we remember little things they say.
Let's be honest, how many of you really give your full attention when your girl is blabbing away about her day?Probably not many of you, which means a girl will be shocked when you all of a sudden start acting on the little pieces of info she gives out.
This is one of the easiest ways to set you apart from the other guys.
The problem is most of us struggle to pay attention, there's too much else on our mind such as work, sports games, sex, or our next beer.
If you want to impress that new chick you're seeing or show your long term girlfriend you really do care, you have to step it up and work on your listening skills.
Below are some simple things I do to make sure I remember things.
If you're at home or work and your girl calls, make sure you have a pen and paper handy.
Write down any important things she mentions, favorite candy, dates she is off work, or new song she loves.
What if your out on date and you can't write something down?Say you go out to dinner and your date mentions her birth date; this is something you need to remember!If you ever ask for this info, you lose lots of brownie points.
The easiest thing to do is once she says it, repeat it back.
"Oh, your born on January, 27 our birthdays are far apart, mine is August 1st".
Repeating her birth day helps you remember it.
I would also keep repeating it to myself until I have a few seconds of alone time to text it to myself or put it in a date book.
Do the same thing if she mentions anything important.
Come up with a way to repeat it back, and get it in your phone.
Some conversations you have over the internet via AIM (instant messenger) will have some great info; you can impress your girl with later.
Don't go crazy and save every talk session you have with her, you crazy nut!But do save the ones that contain some important tidbits of info like favorite color, drink, TV show, car, or anything that is personalized to her.
Just copy the conversation from AIM and paste into a word document.
Then you can go back at your leisure and pull out the useful info.
You should also buy a notebook and keep all her favorites and important dates (birthday, anniversary, etc) in it.
This might seem a bit drastic but you will be amazed at the results.
If you do not have a great memory, you are really missing out on some prime opportunities to impress your girl and show her you care.
How do you get better at anything?You study it and study so more.
Relationships are the same way; if you want a better one you have to work on it.
Use the tips above to impress your girl with how much you care about her.
Let's be honest, how many of you really give your full attention when your girl is blabbing away about her day?Probably not many of you, which means a girl will be shocked when you all of a sudden start acting on the little pieces of info she gives out.
This is one of the easiest ways to set you apart from the other guys.
The problem is most of us struggle to pay attention, there's too much else on our mind such as work, sports games, sex, or our next beer.
If you want to impress that new chick you're seeing or show your long term girlfriend you really do care, you have to step it up and work on your listening skills.
Below are some simple things I do to make sure I remember things.
If you're at home or work and your girl calls, make sure you have a pen and paper handy.
Write down any important things she mentions, favorite candy, dates she is off work, or new song she loves.
What if your out on date and you can't write something down?Say you go out to dinner and your date mentions her birth date; this is something you need to remember!If you ever ask for this info, you lose lots of brownie points.
The easiest thing to do is once she says it, repeat it back.
"Oh, your born on January, 27 our birthdays are far apart, mine is August 1st".
Repeating her birth day helps you remember it.
I would also keep repeating it to myself until I have a few seconds of alone time to text it to myself or put it in a date book.
Do the same thing if she mentions anything important.
Come up with a way to repeat it back, and get it in your phone.
Some conversations you have over the internet via AIM (instant messenger) will have some great info; you can impress your girl with later.
Don't go crazy and save every talk session you have with her, you crazy nut!But do save the ones that contain some important tidbits of info like favorite color, drink, TV show, car, or anything that is personalized to her.
Just copy the conversation from AIM and paste into a word document.
Then you can go back at your leisure and pull out the useful info.
You should also buy a notebook and keep all her favorites and important dates (birthday, anniversary, etc) in it.
This might seem a bit drastic but you will be amazed at the results.
If you do not have a great memory, you are really missing out on some prime opportunities to impress your girl and show her you care.
How do you get better at anything?You study it and study so more.
Relationships are the same way; if you want a better one you have to work on it.
Use the tips above to impress your girl with how much you care about her.
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