Have ??u noticed th?t ??ur man ?s pulling ?w?? fr?m ??u ?nd ??u w?nt t? kn?w h?w ??u ??n g?t h?m b??k? D??s h? s??m distant ?t times ?r ?ust n?t ?s ?nt? ??u ?s h? ?n?? w?s? ?r? ??u worried th?t h? ?s going t? dump ??u ?r leave ??u f?r ?n?th?r woman?

The truth ?s th?t men ?ft?n d? pull ?w?? ?n ? relationship ?t d?ff?r?nt stages? ??m?t?m?s th? reasons ?r? qu?t? innocent ?nd ?t ?th?r times ?t ??n cast ? dark shadow ?v?r ??ur relationship ?nd ??ur life. Understanding wh? ??ur man ?s pulling ?w?? ?nd wh? men pull ?w?? ??n b? helpful ?n g?tt?ng ??ur relationship b??k ?n track though.

Life - ??m?t?m?s ?t trul? ?s n?th?ng t? worry ?b?ut ?f ??ur man appears distant ?r ?t s??ms ?s ?f h? ?s pulling ?w??. ?t ??uld b? th?t h? ?s thinking ?b?ut work ?r family problems ?r ?t ??uld b? s?m?th?ng ?s mundane ?s h?s fantasy football team th?t h? ?s worrying ?b?ut! ?? m?ght n?t ?v?n kn?w h?ms?lf wh?t ?s bothering h?m ?t ?n? ??rt??ul?r moment ?nd ?ft?n ?t r??ll? ?s n?th?ng t? worry ?b?ut. Men ?r? strange ?nd th? internal dialog th?t g??s ?n inside th??r head ??n s?m?t?m?s b? embarrassing t? discuss ?f ??u w?r? telling h?m ?b?ut ??ur day ?nd h? w?s wondering wh?t th? dog w?s d??ng ?t th?t moment ?nd worrying th?t h? w?s ?n th? trash ?g??n ?r s?m? nonsense.

Uncertainty - ?n th? ?th?r side ?f th? coin, ?t r??ll? ??uld b? th?t h? ?s uncertain ?b?ut ??ur relationship. ?t ??uld b? th?t th? passion h?s left ??ur relationship ?nd ?t ??uld b? th?t ??ur man ?s pulling ?w?? b???us? h? ?s unsure ?b?ut th? future.

At ?n? time ??rh??s h? w?s v?r? affectionate ?nd fun ?nd th?r? s??m?d t? b? ? lot ?f chemistry b?tw??n th? tw? ?f ??u. ??w ?s uncertainty sets ?n ?nd ??u continue t? b? affectionate ?nd playful ?nd flirty h? b?g?ns t? b???m? withdrawn. Y?u worry th?t it's s?m?th?ng th?t you're d??ng but th? truth ?s th?t ?t ?s ?ust h?s uncertainty th?t ?s making ??ur affection making ??u appear needy ?nd causing h?m t? furth?r withdraw. ?t ??n b? ? vicious cycle but n?t ?n? w?th?ut ? remedy.

Fear - ?s th? uncertainty sets ?n s? ?ls? d??s fear. ?? fears ?nd b???m?s afraid ?f b???m?ng emotionally attached t? ??u. ?h?s? tw? ?ft?n g? hand ?n hand ?nd ?s things progress h? m?? b???m? v?r? negative ?nd distant. ??s fear ?f b??ng trapped ?n ? relationship will ??us? h?m t? b???m? hyper critical ?nd th? v?r? things th?t h? us?d t? love (?nd th?t m?st guys love!) l?k? affection ?nd spending time t?g?th?r feel l?k? ? trap. ?h? fun times th?t ??u spent t?g?th?r m?ght s??m ?lm?st forced ?nd suddenly ??u h?v? ? man th?t d??sn't call l?k? h? us?d t? ?nd ?s n?w ?ft?n busy w?th ?th?r plans.

So wh?t d? ??u d? wh?n ??u feel ??ur man pulling ?w??? ??w ??n ??u g?t h?m t? s?? th?t n?th?ng h?s r??ll? changed ?nd th?t ??u ?ust w?nt t? h?v? fun? Well, calling h?m ?n th? carpet ?nd demanding t? kn?w what's u? ?nd wh?r? ??ur relationship stands ?s ? sur? w?? t? send ??ur relationship plummeting d?wn th?t hill ?nd r??ll? freak ??ur man out.

Instead, ?f ??u ?r? ?bl? t? continue t? hang w?th h?m ?nd s?? h?m thr?ugh th?s stage wh?l? h? deals w?th h?s fears ?t ?s v?r? ??ss?bl? f?r h?m t? ??m? ?ut th? ?th?r side ?s th? man th?t ??u remember. ?? reassuring ?nd d?n't push ?s ??u t?k? ?t day b? day w?th?ut b??ng demanding ??n sh?w h?m th?t you're n?t l??k?ng t? trap h?m ?nd someday s??n th? good times ??n return... th? affection ?nd attention th?t ??u grew fond ?f ??n return ?f ??u kn?w h?w t? handle wh?n ??ur man pulls ?w??.