Have you ever sat back and watched one of your buddies try and pick up a woman at a bar or a nightclub and watched as he sank fast and furiously? I think that we have all had this experience and more often than not, we seem to think that if we were the ones that approached her, we would have scored her number for sure.
Of course, when it comes our time to bat, we don't do much better than our buddy did.
Why is it that most men seem to struggle at picking up a woman? Although it might seem next to impossible at times, there ARE little things that you can do that will rapidly increase your success with women.
And since most guys are unaware of how or what to do, you will be playing in a whole new ballpark.
Translation: Your success with women will skyrocket and shoot through the ROOF! You have to learn how to escalate a woman's attraction, first.
See, when you approach a woman, not only does everyone around you know exactly what you are trying to get from her, she does as well.
So, it's only natural for her to want to swat you down.
If a woman were to accept every man that approached her, well, let's just say that her reputation would not be exactly squeaky clean.
To combat this natural reaction from a woman, you have to be able to escalate things.
You can't start off with the transparent intention of grabbing a number or maybe going to her place for sex.
You have to be able to walk her through conversation, flirting, and then go for what you really want.
So, where should you start? From the moment you approach her, your mind should be working in steps.
You should try to make her crack a smile first.
Then go for some good, full on laughter.
That's when you should begin to really flirt and try and build attraction with her.
Now that you have got her guard down, so to speak.