No matter how much you want to find the woman you want, the woman you wish to be with forever, you will never succeed until you learn how to approach her.
Even more important how do you attract them to you? The rules for this are not logical, meaning what you think you should do may not be the right way to go about it.
For instance, you see guys that are cocky and seem arrogant, but they are the guys that have the most luck meeting women.
This cannot make since because you would think that being nice and polite to girls would be the way to go.
This is actually not true, this approach might make you friends but that is about as far as the relationship will go.
For the best success you must develop this attitude yourself, but not to the extent of being rude.
You must come across as being confident in what you do and have a look of being in control.
Also have a good sense of humor and be able to play around with the girls.
Having this kind of attitude seems to come across with the girls as something interesting and compelling.
Now if you can combine this attitude of confidence in yourself with being funny, you would be way ahead.
Do not be funny as in telling jokes all the time or being the jokester, the kind of funny we are talking about is finding a fault with a girl and making light of it.
Not quite picking on them but making them laugh at themselves.
You can find yourself going back and forth with a girl over something about her.