If you want to get your ex girlfriend back, the most important thing to is to slow down the process. You must realize that you will not be able to make her return immediately, unless you are very lucky. In most of the cases there is a long way until you have success.

Chances of reconciliation depend in how a man behaves the first moments after a breakup. His success opportunities can be lost if he makes certain mistakes the first days after the separation.

The worst mistake that can be made the first days after a breakup is to maintain communication with your ex. The results will be the opposite than the ones you expect, your girlfriend will be more angry and will not think in the possibility of getting back.

The recommended first move after breaking up is rather counterintuitive. Instead of calling her every day or several times a day you should stop calling your girlfriend and focus on your life. A man that is healthy, occupied with new activities has more chance to get an ex back than one that stops doing exercise and spends all days at home thinking about the broken relationship.

If you think that dating another girl and making your ex jealous is a good idea, there is evidence that says it is not. In most cases, your ex girlfriend thinks you have moved on and she will have the same intention, even if she wanted to get back with you.

What to do if your ex moved on and is on a new relationship? Many men think there is no chance to get his girlfriend back in this situation, but following the right steps there are no impossible cases.

How do you decide the right time to have sex during the reconciliation process? Men tend to speed up this process and this is a great way to destroy the chance of making up. Other decision you have to make is when and how to apologize. There is a correct way to do it, and it is not always effective.

Most relationships can be salvaged. We only need to follow the correct steps and our girlfriend will be soon back sharing the best moments of life with you.