Guys, has your wonderful girlfriend moved in with you now, but somehow taken over? Do you feel like she is in charge of your destiny and is more like a girl fiend? Don't panic, here are a couple of tips that should put paid to you losing your sanity and help prevent you from simply going cuckoo.
Your girl is great and you love her dearly, she naturally loves you back.
Sweet.
You are happy with her and bowling along nicely at you own pace.
Everything is great.
The thing is, if your girl loves you, eventually she will want more, and maybe sooner than you know.
While you may be quite content to be with your girl and also do your usual thing, go to the game, go out with your pals and have a good time, it is inevitable that she will want more from you.
Although you are fine and the sky is blue, she wants commitment from you long-term.
The mind of the female species works in a strange and yet wonderful way my friend, and I wouldn't have it any other way, but to be able to exist with your girl as a couple, it's all about realizing that there is a timing element in your relationship.
Your girl definitely has a body clock, which you do not.
She will have planned out how your relationship may progress, when she wants to get married, have children, become a nun, whatever, there will be a mental clock ticking away inside your girlfriend's head.
So, what can you do about it? The first tip, is to accept that this exists, is looming in the background, and embrace it as soon as possible.
That is all that you can do, and it is without doubt a necessity for you to do.
That is, of course, if you are to enjoy a long and fruitful life with her.
Be prepared for long-term commitment.
If you can mentally tune your mind to this outcome now, then it will almost certainly keep you from losing your sanity, as you will not be wondering why your girlfriend's persona seems to be darkly changing into girl fiend mode.
The second tip, the most obvious and possibly the scariest, but the best thing to do, is to actually talk to your girl about exactly that.
The commitment factor.
This is absolutely vital and as you know by now, the reason behind why she seems to be becoming more of a girl fiend.
She needs that security of knowing for sure that you ultimately care about her.
She is waiting for you to take action, which is why she may be trying to take charge, dropping strong hints, without actually spelling it out for you.
Unfortunately, we need it spelling out sometimes.
Don't wait too long then to take action, if you are to rid yourself of the fiend and get back your friend.
Otherwise, she will believe deep down that you don't really care enough to commit, which is just not true, is it? Once this occurs and your girl's mind gets a grip of this idea, if allowed to stew, it will be extra difficult for you to swing it back around.
Girl fiend will not stay around forever either, and if she leaves, she will become someone else's lovely, new girlfriend.
Can you allow that to happen? It's your move.