What Men Want In A Woman No 59: A Fearslayer
What men want in a woman is someone who slays their fears.
Most people go through their life never doing anything that their afraid of.
This is a life that's wasted because they never go outside their comfort zone.
People ultimately never experience growth if they never go outside their comfort zone and their ultimately less of a complete individual than someone who actually does bite into their fears and shakes them into submission.
This is an attractive quality in women for a few reasons, which I'll explain below.
1.
Few Women Face Their Fears This is actually a pretty "cheap" reason but it is worth mentioning nonetheless.
In general, it is safe to say that few women face their fears.
When women are in a relationship, they tend to ask their partner to face their fear for them.
Men agree, simply because they want to be more of a man, but they're actually not doing their partner any favors by facing their fear for them.
Women who face their own fears are few and far in between.
Men are attracted to women who don't need them as much and will tend to gravitate towards these women more because there are less of them.
2.
They Are More Realistic Women who have slain their fears are scared of less.
That's another simple, logical conclusion.
Since they are scared of less, they also have more of a realistic view of the world and appreciate life more.
They realize that their man can die at any moment.
They realize that their marriage could end in divorce.
They realize that they're lucky to have a man.
They don't stress out about the minor details and appreciate what they have instead of trying to get more of what they don't have.
3.
They Can Slay Their Man's Fears This is a powerful point that doesn't get talked about much, simply for the fact that so many men are afraid to even mention that they are afraid of things.
Damn our huge egos! Men often get more stressed out about little things in life.
Combine that with the pressure of satisfying people's expectations, meeting deadlines at work etc and you got yourself a recipe to have a mental breakdown.
Ladies, if you can slay your own fears, you can slay ours too.
You have no idea how beneficial that would be for us and how much more we would respect and love you for that.
What men want in a woman is someone who can help us slay our fears.
This can only come if they slay their own fears too.
It takes time, but the more you do it, the better you get at doing it.
Most people go through their life never doing anything that their afraid of.
This is a life that's wasted because they never go outside their comfort zone.
People ultimately never experience growth if they never go outside their comfort zone and their ultimately less of a complete individual than someone who actually does bite into their fears and shakes them into submission.
This is an attractive quality in women for a few reasons, which I'll explain below.
1.
Few Women Face Their Fears This is actually a pretty "cheap" reason but it is worth mentioning nonetheless.
In general, it is safe to say that few women face their fears.
When women are in a relationship, they tend to ask their partner to face their fear for them.
Men agree, simply because they want to be more of a man, but they're actually not doing their partner any favors by facing their fear for them.
Women who face their own fears are few and far in between.
Men are attracted to women who don't need them as much and will tend to gravitate towards these women more because there are less of them.
2.
They Are More Realistic Women who have slain their fears are scared of less.
That's another simple, logical conclusion.
Since they are scared of less, they also have more of a realistic view of the world and appreciate life more.
They realize that their man can die at any moment.
They realize that their marriage could end in divorce.
They realize that they're lucky to have a man.
They don't stress out about the minor details and appreciate what they have instead of trying to get more of what they don't have.
3.
They Can Slay Their Man's Fears This is a powerful point that doesn't get talked about much, simply for the fact that so many men are afraid to even mention that they are afraid of things.
Damn our huge egos! Men often get more stressed out about little things in life.
Combine that with the pressure of satisfying people's expectations, meeting deadlines at work etc and you got yourself a recipe to have a mental breakdown.
Ladies, if you can slay your own fears, you can slay ours too.
You have no idea how beneficial that would be for us and how much more we would respect and love you for that.
What men want in a woman is someone who can help us slay our fears.
This can only come if they slay their own fears too.
It takes time, but the more you do it, the better you get at doing it.
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